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Old 08-10-2017, 12:02 PM
 
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Only way I can see a request for another doctor being legit is if the doctor is not understandable when they give you orders/info at your appointment. And it does happen. There's an older couple in my neighborhood that I'm friendly with who are both retired physicians. They both practiced in the US for decades, but are originally from Thailand. I find it hard to understand them when they respond to "Hi, how are you today?" so I could see where a patient trying to understand a discussion on a medical issue could be a problem. Especially if the patient is elderly and has some loss of hearing as so many older folks do.

 
Old 08-10-2017, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Or how about referrals from acquaintances or friends/family. I got plenty of referrals over the yrs from my friends.
 
Old 08-10-2017, 12:48 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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But how would anyone know if they learned English first? Just because you have or don't have an accent wouldn't necessarily mean anything.
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Old 08-10-2017, 02:02 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Frankly, I don't give a ratsass where my doctor/dentist is from nor what color he/she is. I do care where they went to med school and (more importantly) where they did their residency and fellowship (if applicable). I want the best damn doctor and dentist I can afford - ESPECIALLY when I'm dealing with a serious illness.

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Only way I can see a request for another doctor being legit is if the doctor is not understandable when they give you orders/info at your appointment. And it does happen. There's an older couple in my neighborhood that I'm friendly with who are both retired physicians. They both practiced in the US for decades, but are originally from Thailand. I find it hard to understand them when they respond to "Hi, how are you today?" so I could see where a patient trying to understand a discussion on a medical issue could be a problem. Especially if the patient is elderly and has some loss of hearing as so many older folks do.
This I agree with. We had that issue with a physician for my husband who was born in India.

I do, however, discriminate against doctors that are older and kinda worn out by the years of whining patients and the insurance companies making their lives a nightmare. There are certainly exceptions, and for second opinions, I often look for an experienced doctor. But surgeons? I can't think of an exception, but I'm sure there are some, but I want the young doctors. The one who has education and techniques from this decade, not the eighties. The one who knows how to use all the newest technology, like robotics and computer assisted surgeries. The one who has better reflexes. The one who don't have an ego the size of Rhode Island. Generally, I'm not enthused about a surgeon over the age of 50. JMO.
 
Old 08-10-2017, 02:54 PM
 
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Luckyd609 said it all. If you dare to suggest you'd be more comfortable with someone who speaks your language, you're a racist. And lots of other bad things. And a horrible person.

So here's how to handle that. Just say, okay, Lefty, I'm a racist and all the ists and xphobics. Now, enough name calling, let's get on with it.

It's your decision. My favorite doctor was a Persian, pretty good English and a great guy. My current doc is as white as I am. All business and, fortunately, I haven't had to test his competency. Although he has good bona fides hanging on the wall.

Get referrals from like minded acquaintances. I wouldn't walk through what's left of the Yellow Pages looking past the Nguyens to get to the Nelsons. Nguyen may have been born in Des Moines and Nelson just got his license reinstated.
 
Old 08-10-2017, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Nowhere
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Luckyd609 said it all. If you dare to suggest you'd be more comfortable with someone who speaks your language, you're a racist. And lots of other bad things. And a horrible person.

So here's how to handle that. Just say, okay, Lefty, I'm a racist and all the ists and xphobics. Now, enough name calling, let's get on with it.

It's your decision. My favorite doctor was a Persian, pretty good English and a great guy. My current doc is as white as I am. All business and, fortunately, I haven't had to test his competency. Although he has good bona fides hanging on the wall.

Get referrals from like minded acquaintances. I wouldn't walk through what's left of the Yellow Pages looking past the Nguyens to get to the Nelsons. Nguyen may have been born in Des Moines and Nelson just got his license reinstated.
Is this post for real? I'm asking in seriousness because I don't think it can be.


As for some of the other wild responses in this thread (and this one), I can't respond on my phone right now, maybe later.


But seriously, I think some of you people are preposterous - the assumptions, accusations, and general hate being directed at me is shocking.
 
Old 08-10-2017, 04:40 PM
 
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Is this post for real? I'm asking in seriousness because I don't think it can be.


As for some of the other wild responses in this thread (and this one), I can't respond on my phone right now, maybe later.


But seriously, I think some of you people are preposterous - the assumptions, accusations, and general hate being directed at me is shocking.
I guess you missed my point entirely. I was pointing out how you'd be attacked for not being fully PC-compliant. Or were you saying you have no right wanting to understand your providers?
 
Old 08-10-2017, 04:42 PM
 
Location: God's Country
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Is this post for real?

I was wondering the same thing ..... about the OP.
 
Old 08-10-2017, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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What's really troubling is that this is like the 10th thread I've read in the last 24 hours along these lines on City-Data. Racists are attempting to bury PC civility wholesale and turn all corners of City-Data into their own alt-right echo chamber. What's going on? Sadly, I think I know...
 
Old 08-10-2017, 05:14 PM
 
Location: near bears but at least no snakes
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Closed. This does not really relate to health and wellness.
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