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Originally Posted by PittsburghPatty
Karen:
Your experience is amazing and I hope mine is as positive.
The only thing that worried me about it was your quick discharge from the hospital. I live on my own and I'm worried about how I will do without assistance. I wonder how other single people do it. I guess I am assuming I'll hire a home health type person for a few days but I'd prefer to stay a little longer inpatient and be in better shape when going home. My mom was in the hospital a few days after surgery and then sent to rehab for about 5 days. She went home alone at that point and did well. She had PT come home for a while also.
I'd like to hear how other single people managed.
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I WANTED to get out of the hospital as quickly as possible!! Then again, I am EXTREMELY independent and HATED being an inpatient. YMMV!
I managed just fine on my own. With the first surgery, a friend drove me home and I had set up my TV room as a sleeping room since I knew stairs would be very difficult (I have a 2-story house). The TV room has a chair bed so I slept on that for the first week or two -- it was fine although the room has only a doorway, not a door, so I couldn't keep my kitties out! Also, I had to sleep on my back, which is my LEAST favorite position (and a position I never choose if I don't have to!) -- so that was hard to get used to (took probably a couple of months before I could sleep COMFORTABLY on my sides/stomach again.)
Anyway, the PT company came to me 3 times a week and we did the exercises in the first-floor rooms. When they weren't there, I did exercises on my own and otherwise just hobbled around on my walker. The walker was a pain to maneuver so I switched to a cane ASAP. I'd been told I couldn't be able to drive for 6 weeks (especially because my car is a stick-shift), but I tried after 2 weeks and I could so I did. (Note, I could do this ONLY because I stopped the opioids within a few days the first time -- they simply weren't effective AND I wanted to drive and knew I couldn't if I were on opioids.)
The second time went even better -- the opioids were once again totally ineffective so I was off them by day 2 or 3. (I wrote a thread about the opioids as NONE of them have ever worked well for me ... must be my body chemistry.) I was driving within a week. I did NOT have the PT company come back -- instead, I just did the exercises on my own. (The PT company was not reliable the first time around -- honestly, I'm appalled that the hospital continued to USE them.)
Originally my SO was going to be up here for my 2nd surgery or just after, but COVID changed that. He could have done things like cook for me (
) but honestly, I was totally fine by myself. The pain was bad but I knew it would be and I also knew it would go away eventually. Luckily, since my work schedule was COMPLETELY flexible, I could sleep whenever I needed to, so if it took me 2-3 hours to get to sleep at first -- and it did, many times -- I knew I could sleep as late as I wanted to the next day so I managed.
I really had no problems at all being on my own. Things like going upstairs took me longer (my home office was upstairs so I had to go up there 2-3 times a day), but I could still do them.
The only thing I remember as being impossible at first was lifting heavy bags. My main source of heat is usually my pellet insert, but it couldn't be that winter because I could not lift the 40-lb. bags -- I would not have even tried to! But everything else was do-able. Even when I couldn't yet drive, I could go to my doctor's visits because my little town has a door-to-door senior bus for $1 a ride (or free if you can't afford the dollar). But even if they didn't, I would have just taken a taxi (and been grumpy about it because that could have gotten expensive!).
Oh, my surgeon had done the surgery hundreds of times (maybe a few thousands) -- hence my confidence in him. For him, it was COMPLETELY routine.
YMMV, of course, and you didn't say how old you are so I don't know if that will make a difference for you. I was 61. I had REALLY bad, bone-on-bone arthritis in both knees and had run on pavement for 20+ years, which didn't help. I am still planning to run again, but likely only on my treadmill -- much easier on the knees!
I wish you the best!