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Old 08-12-2022, 06:17 AM
 
Location: Central Florida
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Report the massage therapist and the establishment to the state licensing agency.
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Old 08-12-2022, 07:18 AM
 
Location: Vermont
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Clearly not a reputable place.....
Perhaps a call to the BBB..?
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:03 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I am a man and I went to for a therapeutic massage for stress relief. They advertise as giving ethical massages. Well she touched my privates twice. Each time I said not there and guided her to elsewhere on my body. She complied but ended the massage shortly after. Instead of an hour massage i got 45. Otherwise she was cordial but confused. I told her im in a relationship and not interested. Arrgh I deliberately researched to make sure its a legit massage. I gave a tip and left as I did not want a scene. I kind want to forget about this but im feeling confused. This is the 3rd time this has happened at different establishments Now I think I am no longer going to do massages anymore. Ridiculous. I just have kept this to myself.
I would think if you google "Licensed Massage Therapists" you won't run into this issue. I've had massages only by licensed professionals and they've always been clinical and professional in their techniques.
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:23 AM
 
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Report the massage therapist and the establishment to the state licensing agency.

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Clearly not a reputable place.....
Perhaps a call to the BBB..?

Oh brother, let's overreact. Or maybe just not go there, or be clear up front (they may not speak the best English), or how about keep your shorts on?
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:24 AM
 
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Well, you did say you went to an Asian massage place...
Your (not-so-slightly racist) point being? I've been to at least half a dozen, all of them 100% legit.
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:35 AM
 
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I would think if you google "Licensed Massage Therapists" you won't run into this issue. I've had massages only by licensed professionals and they've always been clinical and professional in their techniques.
Yep they are licensed
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:37 AM
 
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It's not overreacting. If a woman went for a massage and had her privates touched, it would be a really big deal. It's something you don't want someone doing if it's unwelcome.

You could try a chain like Massage Envy. Or you could talk to the front desk on the way IN so they could relay your wishes to the masseuse. I also agree about men doing better massage. They just have stronger hands.
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:37 AM
 
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Why? You didn't do anything wrong.
Right but if this place develops a reputation i will look like a John
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:46 AM
 
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Right but if this place develops a reputation i will look like a John
To whom? Don't continue going there and you will never be associated with it, no matter if someone may have once seen you exiting it. Mountains out of molehills.
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Old 08-12-2022, 09:59 AM
 
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Yeah the exact same thing happened to my buddy Bob! He was heading to a big playoff game and needed a massage. So he drove his Bentley 4-5 towns away so he could have some privacy and suddenly the massage gets "out of hand," and then he is given a notice to appear in court, the cops have a video tape, its human trafficking and suddenly he is being hounded by TMZ! This was no Krafty massage for ole Bob!
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