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Old 08-13-2022, 08:26 PM
 
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How about not patronizing that sort of sleazy business in the first place?

Why should someone have to keep their shorts on?

Because they had already had this unwanted touching take place on 3 occasions at 3 similar establishments and they apparently can't figure out how to help avoid it, that's why.
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Old 08-13-2022, 08:34 PM
 
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$450,000.00 lawsuit in Oregon:

“A Democratic Oregon House candidate is suing the owner of a Woodburn massage parlor after he says she tried to initiate sexual contact with him”. …...”Anthony Medina claims the owner of Woodburn Spa caused him “emotional injury and mental anguish, trauma, an inability to form close relationships, nightmares” and other negative effects in the incident.”

https://www.oregonlive.com/politics/...l-contact.html



Chair of school board, Democratic House Candidate and happily married father of 3 young girls gets seen leaving sleazy massage parlor and quickly thinks of a ruse to save his political skin.
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Old 08-14-2022, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Wonderland
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Interesting.


I have had many, many massages over the years, generally by male massage therapists (I'm female) but occasionally by females, and generally when I'm nude because I couldn't care less about all that and want the massage therapist to have unrestricted access to trouble spots. I've never once had anyone do anything untoward.

The thought has never even crossed my mind.
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Old 08-14-2022, 08:06 PM
 
Location: Baker City, Oregon
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There was an entire "Curb Your Enthusiasm" episode about "inappropriate" massage touching:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQ-T...nel=VideoReply
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Old 08-14-2022, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Mayberry
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Interesting.


I have had many, many massages over the years, generally by male massage therapists (I'm female) but occasionally by females, and generally when I'm nude because I couldn't care less about all that and want the massage therapist to have unrestricted access to trouble spots. I've never once had anyone do anything untoward.

The thought has never even crossed my mind.
^^ Same. The thought never crossed my mind, ever, even with male MT's.
Always went to places from word of mouth from friends.
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Old 08-14-2022, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Gainesville, FL; formerly Weston, FL
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Yeah the exact same thing happened to my buddy Bob! He was heading to a big playoff game and needed a massage. So he drove his Bentley 4-5 towns away so he could have some privacy and suddenly the massage gets "out of hand," and then he is given a notice to appear in court, the cops have a video tape, its human trafficking and suddenly he is being hounded by TMZ! This was no Krafty massage for ole Bob!
I like what you did there!
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Old 08-29-2022, 01:45 AM
 
Location: Harrisburg
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I am a man and I went to for a therapeutic massage for stress relief. They advertise as giving ethical massages. Well she touched my privates twice. Each time I said not there and guided her to elsewhere on my body. She complied but ended the massage shortly after. Instead of an hour massage i got 45. Otherwise she was cordial but confused. I told her im in a relationship and not interested. Arrgh I deliberately researched to make sure its a legit massage. I gave a tip and left as I did not want a scene. I kind want to forget about this but im feeling confused. This is the 3rd time this has happened at different establishments Now I think I am no longer going to do massages anymore. Ridiculous. I just have kept this to myself.


You may try body massager,( not the electric or battery one) but the manual one, like body Gua Sha, rollers.
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Old 09-03-2022, 06:30 PM
 
Location: Sandy Eggo's North County
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I am a man and I went to for a therapeutic massage for stress relief. They advertise as giving ethical massages. Well she touched my privates twice. Each time I said not there and guided her to elsewhere on my body. She complied but ended the massage shortly after. Instead of an hour massage i got 45. Otherwise she was cordial but confused. I told her im in a relationship and not interested. Arrgh I deliberately researched to make sure its a legit massage. I gave a tip and left as I did not want a scene. I kind want to forget about this but im feeling confused. This is the 3rd time this has happened at different establishments Now I think I am no longer going to do massages anymore. Ridiculous. I just have kept this to myself.
Mr. Watson wants to know the name of the establishment. He's been having "issues" with his regular crew....
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Old 09-04-2022, 01:23 PM
 
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Interesting.


I have had many, many massages over the years, generally by male massage therapists (I'm female) but occasionally by females, and generally when I'm nude because I couldn't care less about all that and want the massage therapist to have unrestricted access to trouble spots. I've never once had anyone do anything untoward.

The thought has never even crossed my mind.

More Than 180 Women Have Reported Sexual Assaults At Massage Envy




https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article...al-assaults-at


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On May 2, 2015, Susan Ingram lay facedown in the dark at her local Massage Envy in West Chester, Pennsylvania, one of the franchise’s nearly 1,200 spas nationwide. It was her seventh session with James Deiter, a massage therapist whom the spa had enthusiastically recommended. By now, Ingram trusted Deiter, and she closed her eyes and relaxed as he worked her muscles. Then, without warning, Deiter ground his erect penis against Ingram’s body. He groped her breasts. He put his fingers in and out of her vagina.

This is an old article, but this is a true national problem. A woman here in Cincinnati filed charges at a national franchise spa a year or so ago. Several other women did the same. I can't find the news article



These are not sleazy massage parlors like OP frequents, these are well known highly (supposedly) regarded franchises
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Old 09-05-2022, 12:59 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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I have gotten massages from two different ladies. In my case, both of them are friends of the family. My Dw knows them. Neither have done anything inappropriate.
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