I had that done and it didn't hurt at all. Seriously, and I'm afraid of everything - I have anesthesia to have my teeth cleaned because of sensitivity and general fear.

The area of the grafts was sort of numb for a few days - maybe longer - following the procedure (slight interruption in the nerve endings?) and then they felt sort of itchy, like something that was healing. I was told not to eat or drink anything very hot or cold for a while or anything that was very crunchy so that nothing bumped into the graft.
Following the procedure, I wore a palate cover, sort of like a retainer that you'd wear after having braces removed. This kept the wound covered and I was able to eat fairly normally in just a couple of days and never had problems. Nothing could bump the roof of my mouth to cause any pain. I think that is the way to go.