I agree about Pottery Barn. In the Chicago area there should be a good store, with possibly a table for you to look at.
The idea about having a table custom made for you is not a bad one. When we needed a fine work worker to repair some furniture, we got a reference from Angie's List. He did good work.
Ana White | Build a Farmhouse Table - Updated Pocket Hole Plans | Free and Easy DIY Project and Furniture Plans
This is a site for plans for hand made furniture. You could have a woodworker make one for you using these plans, perhaps?
Good luck!