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Since these apparent adults still have mom's name on their bank account, I'm wondering if there aren't some special circumstances going on here. If that's the case, adult protective services should be involved.
You'd rather be near-homeless than part with a pet? What is wrong with you people?
Enlighten me... Where did the the OP say she was homeless? My pets are part of my family. My fosters come from people who are probably like you. I would never "get rid" of them as you suggested. People like me are always cleaning up after people like you. Makes me sick that people like you treat animals as disposable. Have some compassion or at least educate yourself on what happens to most animals that people "get rid of".
OP. I have to agree with those who were disgusted about you just tossing the contents of your bathroom bucket over the balcony rail. That's just gross. I hope you were just being sarcastically funny in response to the posters who gave you a hard time...
Since these apparent adults still have mom's name on their bank account, I'm wondering if there aren't some special circumstances going on here. If that's the case, adult protective services should be involved.
I wonder the same.
The situation sounds increasingly concerning with each new post.
I fear the OP is being taken advantage of by this family.
The situation sounds increasingly concerning with each new post.
I fear the OP is being taken advantage of by this family.
OP says married, works full time, saving for a house and seems to have a good grasp of grammar/punctuation/spelling. I'm doubtful, but who wants to be the first to call social services? Perhaps they can track her down via her IP address?
OP says married, works full time, saving for a house and seems to have a good grasp of grammar/punctuation/spelling. I'm doubtful, but who wants to be the first to call social services? Perhaps they can track her down via her IP address?
The OP says she is working several part-time jobs, sounds like they are CNA positions. There are many who work, have decent grammar, and are married who are being taken advantage of by controlling husbands and odd in-laws. It happens more than you might imagine.
Not sure tracking down her IP address and reporting her situation to the authorities will accomplish much. But perhaps the OP will realize that frugal or not, this situation is not normal and will start seeking alternatives.
Throwing urine and feces off the back deck is not normal.
The OP says she is working several part-time jobs, sounds like they are CNA positions. There are many who work, have decent grammar, and are married who are being taken advantage of by controlling husbands and odd in-laws. It happens more than you might imagine.
Not sure tracking down her IP address and reporting her situation to the authorities will accomplish much. But perhaps the OP will realize that frugal or not, this situation is not normal and will start seeking alternatives.
Throwing urine and feces off the back deck is not normal.
Apparently, she's also drawn up house plans, has two dogs and is considering children.
It's definitely not smart, but I've seen A LOT worse (friend managed ~200 rental properties). When the inside of the dwelling has every square inch of carpet caked in animal feces/urine and the person is pooping in plastic bags...now that's an insane sight/smell.
The situation sounds increasingly concerning with each new post.
I fear the OP is being taken advantage of by this family.
She said that HE had been living there in this situation for three years. I don't think she has been there as long. Maybe as a male, it didnt and hasn't bothered him. And she is living for what will happen in a few years. The house, kids etc.
Human urine STINKS. When I was deployed, some of the guys were going to thrash one of the tent mates because he would get up at night and pee between the tents. Too lazy to go to the urinals.
I thought they were walking blocks and blocks to get to the main house, but not really.
On another forum, one of the ladies moved to live with some guy. The things she put up with. She finally snapped and left. Maybe this one will also.
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