Psuchoma - bravo! I learned some very cool facts! Thank you!!!
OP - Since your in MN (lived in Moorhead a year myself) I think you understand how imperative it is to be prepared for weather. Without preparation life becomes harder and downright dangerous. With good planning you get by just fine. Coastal living is the same. Its all about preparation and having a game plan.
Which cities to avoid hurricanes? Coastal living comes with hurricanes. The 2 go hand in hand. Especially with weather in general becoming more extreme. There is no point in looking at statistics of various cities and their previous number of hurricanes.. they all get them eventually. I personally favor coastal NC over SC though... and if you go a bit farther north into Virginia they do statistically have less landfalls.
Things to greatly consider.
1. Just being inland a few or more miles can greatly decrease hurricane winds. You'll still be a very quick drive to the beaches.
2. If not directly on the coast, water will be your biggest concern for almost every storm, even tropical storms (aside categroy 4 - 5.. which then just be smart and evacuate and if there are elderly, sick, or kids involved evacuate for category 3). Get a house on an incline higher than the road if possible. Never buy a home without a storm drain on that street. Make sure your not buying a home in a historical "flood zone". Also consider city elevation. Lastly, check out home insurance prices before you buy a home. Some places can get shockingly high!
3. Make priorities in your house concerning hurricane safety. Dont buy a house until you can afford the hurricane-prep upkeep. Inspect and repair your roof well from a reputable company with many great reviews. Consider hurricane shutters for all east windows or have a few wooden boards ready to nail onto them. Board up all windows for major hurricanes.
4. Consider how youll get by when you lose electric for a week in 90° weather with 85% humidity. A week is not exaggerating, its happend to me probably 8+ times in the 26 years I grew up in coastal FL. You can help this by living next to a police station, hospital, or other emergency service place... as long as you share the same electric/power line. I grew up next to a police station but their electric circuits were on the other side of the street, so their side got power on in hours of the storm and we in days. If you can afford it, generators are great investments. Accept cold showers, have ice packs ready before the storm, candles/flashlights for light, battery operated fans, non-perishable food, lots of water (you cant trust tap water after a hurricane/trop storm), all phones charged before storm, portable radio, etc are all important. Oh, and some board games and a good book to pass the time because when the town is mostly without power cities put curfews in effect.
5. Do not buy a mobile home if you live in a coastal city. When you watch neighborhoods decimated on the news they are usually mobile home parks (unless it's an incrdibly strong storm). Even a category 1 hurricane can un-roof a mobile home. I think they should illegal near the coast.