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I moved from NY to NC in July 2010. I've been looking on and off for a permanent job since then. I've had some temp, freelance, and contract work but now I have nothing. I've been on many interviews in NC but had no offers. As a side note: I worked full-time in NY from 1984 through 2010 (with only short gaps over the years due to maternity leaves and brief periods in between jobs). I also have a BA degree. However, I realize that I'm now considered old and most likely over-qualified as well. I've also applied for some NY jobs but I haven't gotten too many bites (no doubt my NC address is a turnoff). Anyway, there is one NY job that looks promising. I've had several phone conversations about it and they are flying me up for an interview in early November. I want to move back to NY but have to wait until 2018 when my two sons graduate HS and college. So what I'm thinking is that I'd take the job (if it goes that far!), rent a small place nearby, and fly back to NC twice a month. Then we'd sell our house in NC in 2018 when our sons graduate and we'd all move back to NY.
I can't keep looking for a job here in NC for years on end. I wouldn't mind a long job search if I thought it would eventually lead to something. It just doesn't look like that's going to happen at this point (even though I know it seems crazy to say that!). Plus I'm going crazy sitting home doing nothing all day. I'm also afraid that if I stay out of work much longer, I'll never land anything again. I know gaps on a resume are the kiss of death. Until now, I've been able to (somewhat) hide the gaps with my temp, freelance, and contract work but now I have nothing nor do I have any prospects on the horizon so I won't be able to hide the gap much longer. I'm not happy in NC anyway so part of me is very anxious to take a job in NY. However, I also know it'll be a pain to deal with until my entire family can move. I'm also afraid that if I'm offered the NY job and don't take it, who knows how long it'll be until I have another job offer anywhere!!! Of course, a huge plus in taking the NY job is that I'll already have something for when we sell our NC house and buy a house back in NY. I'm really leaning towards going for it and dealing with the inconvenience for two years. I'd greatly appreciate hearing what anyone thinks of this - am I crazy or would I be doing the right thing? Thanks in advance for any advice, thoughts, etc.
What's your industry? Do what you have to do. Have a lot of family discussions to get everyone onboard. If your kids want to go to college in NY you may be able to have residency established by then and they could get in state tuition rates and state aid.
What's your industry? Do what you have to do. Have a lot of family discussions to get everyone onboard. If your kids want to go to college in NY you may be able to have residency established by then and they could get in state tuition rates and state aid.
I'm in publishing which obviously isn't an easy field nowadays. Thanks for pointing out that my younger son may qualify for in-state residency tuition if I get this job. I'll look into that.
I'd rather not go into all of that again (I discussed my reasons for moving in other posts). Suffice it to say things didn't work out as hoped. At this point I'm trying to do what I can to move forward in the best way possible, hence the reason behind this post. I'd love to hear any advice you might have!
Proceed cautiously. I Agree that these days, with a job offer in your industry is very attractive, specially if you have been looking for several years. With the history you describe, this offer sounds good.
On the other hand, NYC has changed since you left in 2010. Cost of living , specially housing, is very difficult for most. Are you sure you are able to find a place you can afford , and, that you will enjoy NY now as much as you did then? Would the kids enjoy the city ? Only you/your family can answer the question. Consider trying to make it in NY for a sufficient period of time that you are sure the job and the city works for everyone, before moving the kids, if that is possible at all. Consider having an return or exit plan. Commuting to NC every other week ? That also puts wear and tear on a person, on a budget, not considering the notorious airport delays with LGA , JFK... You might need several backup plans to stay in touch with the family.
We came to NYC 3 years ago for my husband's job, and I can't find work despite having 15+ years experience and great resume, even at 1/3 my previous salary. Now, with the cost of housing, the long commute, finding the right schools, plus the stress of the city , this is not the NY we knew and loved 10 years ago. We are wishing to go to NC.... Hubby is flying next week to scope a job and living locations. Proceed cautiously.
Proceed cautiously. I Agree that these days, with a job offer in your industry is very attractive, specially if you have been looking for several years. With the history you describe, this offer sounds good.
On the other hand, NYC has changed since you left in 2010. Cost of living , specially housing, is very difficult for most. Are you sure you are able to find a place you can afford , and, that you will enjoy NY now as much as you did then? Would the kids enjoy the city ? Only you/your family can answer the question. Consider trying to make it in NY for a sufficient period of time that you are sure the job and the city works for everyone, before moving the kids, if that is possible at all. Consider having an return or exit plan. Commuting to NC every other week ? That also puts wear and tear on a person, on a budget, not considering the notorious airport delays with LGA , JFK... You might need several backup plans to stay in touch with the family.
We came to NYC 3 years ago for my husband's job, and I can't find work despite having 15+ years experience and great resume, even at 1/3 my previous salary. Now, with the cost of housing, the long commute, finding the right schools, plus the stress of the city , this is not the NY we knew and loved 10 years ago. We are wishing to go to NC.... Hubby is flying next week to scope a job and living locations. Proceed cautiously.
15 years experience as what?
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