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Shana Tova 5784 or Happy New Year September 15, 2023!
I am trying to write a message without too much of an edge to it. A lot of the theme for this “greeting” is the sermon heard in synagogue tonight. On the positive side, my health and my family’s health continues to be good, though not without the challenges of entering our early to mid-60’s. I definitely don’t get enough exercise so perhaps that’s a good “New Year’s Resolution.”
On the negative side, communications with once-close friends have gone from actual gatherings (there still are some) to emails to text messages. Real communication is rare. When one picks up the phone, one almost expects to hear “what’s the purpose of this call” or “why did you call” or “not a good time, Jim.” Cold test messages or emails are not a replacement for socializing. Emails, when answered, get one-line responses that make clear that they are unwelcome. Other friendships, one of a duration of over 50 years, have fallen victim to political voting choices. People are, frankly, no longer there for each other. Did March 2020 make us all scared of each other? On that note, the Tennis Club and neighborhood swimming pool were poorly attended this past summer, despite rare rainfall (mostly on weekdays) and a general lack of excess heat.
I had hoped that the gradual end of the “pandemic” would restore some gregariousness. To be blunt, it hasn’t. For example there used to be two packed shifts of Rosh Hashonah services. We’re down to one that was, maybe, 75% full. The old committees have either not returned or the “meetings” turn into one person droning on and on about the merits of window displaces during the winter Holidays, or banking charges. Various group activities with clergy fall by the wayside since no one can find anything to discuss; a poor excuse.
On a happier note, the weather forecast is good for Taslich and one last pool weekend.
Shana Tova 5784 or Happy New Year September 15, 2023!
On the negative side, communications with once-close friends have gone from actual gatherings (there still are some) to emails to text messages. Real communication is rare. When one picks up the phone, one almost expects to hear “what’s the purpose of this call” or “why did you call” or “not a good time, Jim.” Cold test messages or emails are not a replacement for socializing. Emails, when answered, get one-line responses that make clear that they are unwelcome. Other friendships, one of a duration of over 50 years, have fallen victim to political voting choices. People are, frankly, no longer there for each other. Did March 2020 make us all scared of each other? On that note, the Tennis Club and neighborhood swimming pool were poorly attended this past summer, despite rare rainfall (mostly on weekdays) and a general lack of excess heat.
Shana Tova! I actually have one friend that speak on the phone regularly once a week (the day varies due their work schedule) for a long phone conversation (avoiding speaking about politics) and another friend (that lives overseas) who I speak to a bit more irregularly but at least once within a 2 week period and also usually a long conversation. These phone conversations are definitely better than texting or emailing which are used to supplement these relationships.
So I wish you not only Shana Tova but a restoration of your close friendships!
Shana Tova! I actually have one friend that speak on the phone regularly once a week (the day varies due their work schedule) for a long phone conversation (avoiding speaking about politics) and another friend (that lives overseas) who I speak to a bit more irregularly but at least once within a 2 week period and also usually a long conversation. These phone conversations are definitely better than texting or emailing which are used to supplement these relationships.
So I wish you not only Shana Tova but a restoration of your close friendships!
Thanks. I did not see your post. I wish you an easy fast and G’mar Hativa Tova.
The hardest part of fasting for me is not having an glass of water on my nightstand.
Thanks. I did not see your post. I wish you an easy fast and G’mar Hativa Tova.
The hardest part of fasting for me is not having an glass of water on my nightstand.
I only saw this afternoon after the fast. So I thank you for your good wishes. I too have the same issue of not having a cup of water next to my bedside at this time.
Meanwhile, I wish you and everyone else here an early Happy Succot/Sukkot!
I only saw this afternoon after the fast. So I thank you for your good wishes. I too have the same issue of not having a cup of water next to my bedside at this time.
Meanwhile, I wish you and everyone else here an early Happy Succot/Sukkot!
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Originally Posted by ben Shunamit
Don't forget the aging observation:
The German says, "I am thirsty! I believe I shall have a beer."
The Italian says, "I am thirsty! I believe I shall have a glass of wine."
The Jew says, "I am thirsty! I believe I have diabetes."
You are both welcome. I actually lasted until after the end of the Neilah and Havdallah services.
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