[von949]

Originally Posted by airics

Are you even in Vegas... it is a completely different world here.... There are plenty of women in the 20s dating the 40+s....

Yes indeed. Seems to be an exception here.


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[marilyn220]

Originally Posted by airics

Are you even in Vegas... it is a completely different world here.... There are plenty of women in the 20s dating the 40+s....

Oh, baby, I have NO DOUBT AT ALL that they are. LOLOL!!

I bet you NONE of those 40 years and up are BROKE either.

Don't be surprised if she has a more "age appropriate" (and probably broke) lover on the side that doesn't need viagra to keep the sex rolling.

[Caltovegas]

All this talk about young women dating older men. Ladies here's something to ask some mature women. Ask them at what point did they become invisable to other men? I don't think it's so much of a bash at women it's just theat we men are very superficial and everyday there are other women turning 18-21 and looking young and firm..

As for the LV dating scene it's basically like anyplace else. If you are looking just for fun go through the numbers. Date em all. If looking for a wife look at the woman and out yourself to make the woman feel secure. If you get to that point of security the woman will find you.. When dating let them know you just want to date and when looking for a wife don't mess with the crazy/fun.. Look for a woamn who can enhance your life. Don't look for a liability..As mentioned looks do fade but a good woman who cooks and cleans for you can last a lifetime..That's a keeper

[marilyn220]

Originally Posted by Caltovegas

All this talk about young women dating older men. Ladies here's something to ask some mature women. Ask them at what point did they become invisable to other men?

Yes, and please believe that most men over the age of 40 are "invisible" to women in their 30s as well if he doesn't physically take care of himself (which many don't).

I don't think it's so much of a bash at women it's just theat we men are very superficial and everyday there are other women turning 18-21 and looking young and firm..

As long as you realize that you're 'invisible' to these young ladies if you're 30 and over. Other than for monetary reasons young women will have NO USE for you. #Truth.com

As mentioned looks do fade but a good woman who cooks and cleans for you can last a lifetime..That's a keeper

And a man that can get it up twice in one night or several times a week without the aid of a sexual stimulant is a "keeper" too.

[NLVgal]

And now we have probably traumatized the poor OP to the point where he is crying in his pillow.

The poor kid was just looking for some dating advice, not a wholesale analysis on how much it sucks to get older when dealing with the opposite sex. But hey, we're a full service forum here!

[aggrofish]

Originally Posted by marilyn220

Oh, baby, I have NO DOUBT AT ALL that they are. LOLOL!!

I bet you NONE of those 40 years and up are BROKE either.

Don't be surprised if she has a more "age appropriate" (and probably broke) lover on the side that doesn't need viagra to keep the sex rolling.

I'd be bitter and go on a crusade too if I were at that age where men my age want younger and the only ones hitting on me were in retirement.

[von949]

No one is invisible in a brand new corvette. (Mid-life crisis vehicle)


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[von949]

Originally Posted by aggrofish

I'd be bitter and go on a crusade too if I were at that age where men my age want younger and the only ones hitting on me were in retirement.

Maybe if you were hotter you could attract better guys?

Cold. This thread is definitely done now.




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[aggrofish]

^ there nicer but you need to edit the quote

[marilyn220]

Originally Posted by aggrofish

I'd be bitter and go on a crusade too if I were at that age where men my age want younger and the only ones hitting on me were in retirement.

Maybe if you were hotter you could attract better guys?

Even if I wasn't "hotter" as you say, I'm still a WOMAN.

And by "better" guys, do you mean the old, bloated looking ones that look super ridiculous hanging onto the young cuties for dear life, while she downs drink after drink to tolerate the pawing?

Or the ones who order those beautiful eastern european brides who need their citizenship papers and are willing to do WHATEVER necessary to get their green card?

You mean THOSE men??

Here's the difference between a 45 year old older woman that takes care of herself and a 45 year old man that does. Neither has to be particularly attractive. Just CLEAN.

The 45 year old woman can walk into any bar, club, shopping mall, etc., and once she sets her sights on someone (no matter his age) to sleep with, she will have NO PROBLEM taking him home.

Contrast this to the 45 year old male perv trying to score. He'll most definitely come across as a skeevy perv to the young hotties he wants and desperate to the older or 'mature' women who are not interested. The 45 year old will have to COME OUT OF HIS POCKET in the form of drinks or just outright cash to make it worth the woman's wile.

Oh, and as for ME and "bitterness" seeing an older man with a pretty young woman out of his league - NOT A CHANCE. LOLOL!!! Unlike HIM, I already know the deal and I salute her for putting up with it.