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You sound like your seasoned in the bar/club scene. I've been to Vegas and there will be some adjustments but no more than going from driving an automatic to a standard.
It's simply a matter of working as hard as you can to get in as good a situation as possible and never giving up. Equally important is knowing your city (and its secrets) and making sure to get out of your house as much as you can when your not working. Everyone has done a good job letting you know of the type of vibe you may run into more often then you would like, but if your heads on straight and you know what your doing than you will certainly be upgrading your situation in Vegas.
Mack, what is missing in all this is you are not really describing the kind of women you are looking for. You say she isn't a supermodel. But I assume she is in pretty dam good shape, young, nice face, good hair....correct? So in order to deserve that, despite being flat ass broke, I assume you work out and are a reasonably good looking guy.
Cuz if you are a 4 looking to land a 9...well they have all seen that before. And it ain't happening.
Mack, what is missing in all this is you are not really describing the kind of women you are looking for. You say she isn't a supermodel. But I assume she is in pretty dam good shape, young, nice face, good hair....correct? So in order to deserve that, despite being flat ass broke, I assume you work out and are a reasonably good looking guy.
Cuz if you are a 4 looking to land a 9...well they have all seen that before. And it ain't happening.
Beena -- you keep jumping into this thread with a bunch of off the wall beliefs that I used to have -- back when I would SELDOM have quality girls in my life. So why don't we change the focus from me to you for a second here?
Who are YOU? How old are YOU? What is YOUR personal situation right now? What do YOU look like? What is YOUR take on the opposite sex? You come off like a bitter 40 year old man to me but I could be wrong. It's that or your just a troll because you keep bringing up topics that you know the answer to already and that you know will push my buttons. I have said countless times I am into the girl next door. As long as she takes care of her body and has a good personality I am happy.
As for me? yeah I am an obese man around 400 pounds, and a midget too, yes that's right -- I am a midget. I have warts and missing teeth and the teeth I still have? They are yellow. I usually spend my time walking around naked to attract attention to myself. I want to score one of them girls that I see on television, you know those ones that are 6 feet tall and 6'4 with the the gold plated stelleto heels and who have perfect white teeth and platinum blond hair and air brush their tans on them and wear a diamond crown on their head!!! She needs to be famous and have a lot of money and be superficial and we can stay up all night talking about all the things we have in common...
Look -- in all seriousness:
What I am looking for is actually very simple. I don't want to live out the prime of my singles life in a small town with limited options. I want to move to a vibrant city with lots of things going on and have as much fun as I can in my spare time and not feel deprived from the things that people in the city have access too, including plenty of members of the opposite sex in which to get acquanted with. I want an area with a warmer average weather pattern too. That's why I was looking into Vegas. It may seem like I have high standards but the fact is that when I lived in bigger places other than this town, like small cities and tourist islands -- it made my life a lot easier when it came to jobs, entertainment, and women. So now I want to try this on an even larger scale and try out a big city. The women in this small town are either very insecure or ridiculas and I find that in bigger places the girls are more my speed.
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"more my speed" = easy? I think all we are asking you to do here is respect women. Their view of casual sex is for the most part dramatically different than yours.
Yes there are exceptions and you will probably find a few. And you will hurt a few along the way. But quality women tend to be looking for love...not the casual hook up that you are offering.
Regardless. Nice thread!! You have captivated an audience here.
"more my speed" = easy? I think all we are asking you to do here is respect women. Their view of casual sex is for the most part dramatically different than yours.
Yes there are exceptions and you will probably find a few. And you will hurt a few along the way. But quality women tend to be looking for love...not the casual hook up that you are offering.
Regardless. Nice thread!! You have captivated an audience here.
Yup I knew you wouldnt answer my questions -- figures -- Oh and I find it very funny and ironic that in one breath you can say to respect women and then the next breath basically call any woman who has casual sex with someone she is not yet in love with -- a sl-ut -- that no woman that has sex without loving you is a quality women. She must be trash right? Wrong. That's ok though, you can hang on to your discrimination and stereotypes -- I wont tell you how to think as you seem to think you should tell me how to...
Maybe it's you who should learn to respect women. It's easy for you to come on here and make generalizations on the internet through a keyboard at me without even knowing me in real life, based off the things I have shared. Your not even willing to share back. The things you say certainly are things that make no sense what-so-ever for the young singles crowd be it men or women. We are in our prime for singles life and we dont want to waste it. If your prime is over and you have wasted yours than I am sorry, and I can see your need to try to drag me down in the process, but it doesnt make it right, and it doesn't make what you say right. I will settle down when I find the right girl, until then my job is to find the right girl and that should never be rushed -- it's something that just happens -- you can't force it.
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Mack, you mentioned a college degree previously but I have not seen you allude to it since. All post high school people who are sucessful go into things with a game plan. Usually the most important aspect of it concerns their career, not meeting uninhibited, free spirited women.
The other women who have written to you are trying to clue you in on a woman's perspective. I think it's bold of you to infer they think free wheeling, free thinking females are sluts. I think what they are thinking is the same as me; being female, we know that most women need strong emotional feelings for that person to have a sucessful romp. As a general rule, the female body is not ruled by the hormonal levels you experience. Yes, I guarantee you too that within an hour, looking in the wrong places at the right time and without the purchase of one drink, you can find some female who will quickly and eagerly go along with any plans. We do not think of them as sluts though and actually, feel sympathy towards them because we know there will always be those who will do anything for attention or the hopes of genuine love. You don't have to relocate to Las Vegas to find them. The other general rule other women know is that if a woman really values herself because she knows she has a lot to offer; i.e., education and a good career, nice looks and personality, intelligence and compassion, she is looking to find the same in her partner of choice before she even deepens it to an emotional relationship. People of tribes tend to stick with people of their own tribe. Gold digging doesn't even enter the equation here but rather, having a common socio-economic level is the catagory it falls under.
Mack, you mentioned a college degree previously but I have not seen you allude to it since.
It's a general business degree, nothing all that special and seldom do I get a chance to take advantage of it up in these parts.
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All post high school people who are sucessful go into things with a game plan. Usually the most important aspect of it concerns their career, not meeting uninhibited, free spirited women.
I think I mentioned before that Im not sure exactly which career path Im going to take at this point, so traveling makes sense right now. Its better than doing nothing and adds to my experiences.
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The other women who have written to you are trying to clue you in on a woman's perspective.
Beena is a male, probably in his 40's or 50's.
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I think it's bold of you to infer they think free wheeling, free thinking females are sluts.
Beena is a male, probably in his 40's or 50's.
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I think what they are thinking is the same as me; being female, we know that most women need strong emotional feelings for that person to have a sucessful romp.
Sometimes they do sometimes they don't -- Whats your point here?
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As a general rule, the female body is not ruled by the hormonal levels you experience.
Females are ruled by emotions.
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Yes, I guarantee you too that within an hour, looking in the wrong places at the right time and without the purchase of one drink, you can find some female who will quickly and eagerly go along with any plans.
I don't doubt that, but whats your point here?
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We do not think of them as sluts though and actually, feel sympathy towards them because we know there will always be those who will do anything for attention or the hopes of genuine love.
lol... more "judgement". I like to think of them more as liberated women who are spontaneous adveturous and fun and do what they want without worrying about what someone else may think about it. Of course discreteness always helps, which is why a vacation place like Las Vegas can be a good place for both men and women to act on their desires. Thus the term "whatever happens in las vegas, stays in las vegas". Do the math. :-)
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You don't have to relocate to Las Vegas to find them.
haha. Certainly not -- again -- whats your point?? I had a girl once ask me to throw her up against a truck and you know what. I tried but I couldn't do it. Not enough connection.
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The other general rule other women know is that if a woman really values herself because she knows she has a lot to offer; i.e., education and a good career, nice looks and personality, intelligence and compassion, she is looking to find the same in her partner of choice before she even deepens it to an emotional relationship.
So then how do you explain the women who "cheat"? How about the rich woman who cheats on her rich husband with the poolguy?
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People of tribes tend to stick with people of their own tribe. Gold digging doesn't even enter the equation here but rather, having a common socio-economic level is the catagory it falls under.
This is just more psychobable/limiting belief. lol. The only rules hun are the rules that I have. I define the rules. I don't want to hang with a girl I have nothing in common with so you won't see me really pursuing women who are ultra successful especially if we dont have anything in common. If she doesn't like to go out and have fun and just work all the time and worry about her nails getting chipped (although thats cute)-- still -- they may need a "soothing" message and some porn after they get home from a long days work and put the kids to bed. lol. Naturally though yes likeminded people want to hang out with likeminded people but when a persons connection to someone is based off lighthearted fun things and emotions, sometimes in the spur of a moment those things wont matter or even be relevant to a situation.
Anyways I don't know why people are still reviving and posting to this thread. I am well aware of the societal rules that you all have become robots to. Im not a robot, I think that's clear, and I think make ship has sailed a while back. Women you can't "fix" me, and men you can't bring me down. It's been a pleasure.
Last edited by Mack wild; 06-14-2008 at 10:14 AM..
I got to admitt I did have fun, I never talk about this stuff with anyone or really give it much thought, I just knew I didn't want to spend my prime somewhere that was lame when it came to the ladies. It was a stimulating debate.
The Beena logon is used by two of us. Sometimes you are hearing from a man, and sometimes you are hearing from a woman.
And the gender of the author has nothing to do with the content of the message here :0
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