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Old 11-15-2010, 12:23 PM
 
Location: NEPA
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I agree whole-heartedly.

Also, Three Ducks, I'm not trying to be a negative Nellie here, but please don't assume that people in New York don't discriminate. I know someone upstate whose son has Asperger's. She had to fight tooth and nail with the school board, the PTA, assorted teachers, and various and sundry local politicians to get her son appropriate education. She's very tall, and she actually had to physically block and tower over some pipsqueak politician to keep him from waving her off and walking away. In the end, she won, but it was an unholy PITA. She used to blog about it, but she has since locked up her archives or I'd send you her way.
Trust me - I welcome honesty, I don't care if it's not pretty.

This is been a huge source of stress for me because it's a really quite an undertaking. My husband has lived in this part of the world his whole life and he has two other kids that we can't bring with us. We don't have any family here, and it's not easy to make friends if you're working when all of the playgroups happen and you work out of the house. And contrary to the picture painted of this part of the country, people are friendly on a very superficial level.

We started looking in NH and we were thrilled to be able to look in NY. The areas we're focusing on are areas that have an excellent reputation for working with parents and providing services. That was part of the reason I didn't think it was a great idea to look on LI. I'm not asking for someone to raise my kid or come to provide 40 hours of ABA per week - we don't need anything like that at all. We want to be somewhere that will see our child for what he is and help us help him reach his potential. I know places like this are hard to find, but they do exist. I know some people have had trouble on the Island too, that's one of the big reasons I won't push with my husband. Being around family will do wonders for my son, but if we can't afford to live in a good district we're right back to where we are here only broker, lol...

I really do appreciate all the responses. Thank you all again.
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Old 11-15-2010, 12:39 PM
 
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There are? I'm in the process of buying and have done significant research, including on this site, and haven't found anything that says prices will fall to 1999 prices.

I did see plenty of posts by you over the last year indicating prices will go up... And they have not.

You are incorrect. I never said prices will go up. I did say many times prices ahave stabilized and they pretty much have. I've also said many times that now is the right time to buy and it is.
Furthermore, If you check again, the term "Pre bubble" will come up many, many times. What do you suppose that means??
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Old 11-15-2010, 01:11 PM
 
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You are incorrect. I never said prices will go up. I did say many times prices ahave stabilized and they pretty much have. I've also said many times that now is the right time to buy and it is.
Furthermore, If you check again, the term "Pre bubble" will come up many, many times. What do you suppose that means??
//www.city-data.com/forum/8599894-post24.html

Ok, maybe you never explicitly said prices will go up, but you said many times that spring 2009 was the time to buy. Prices have gone down slightly, activity has gone down, and rates have gone down. Anyone who listened to you is in worse shape for it.
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Old 11-15-2010, 01:54 PM
 
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Ok, maybe you never explicitly said prices will go up, but you said many times that spring 2009 was the time to buy. Prices have gone down slightly, activity has gone down, and rates have gone down. Anyone who listened to you is in worse shape for it.

zing.
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Old 11-15-2010, 01:55 PM
 
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Ok, maybe you never explicitly said prices will go up, but you said many times that spring 2009 was the time to buy. Prices have gone down slightly, activity has gone down, and rates have gone down. Anyone who listened to you is in worse shape for it.
Another thing you may notice if you read my posts is the accusation that many who buy houses are very short sighted and are buying for ALL the wrong reasons (Investment rather than a place to LIVE).
With your post you have taken that record.
I only hope you don't analyze your retirement plan on a day to day basis.
You should pay more attention to the big picture.
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Old 11-15-2010, 01:59 PM
 
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zing.

Wait it out Dman. The universe will align and people who overpaid for Co-ops will be able to get out at the same time house prices half, then suddenly triple in value.
For the record, pretty much every opinion you have stated about the RE market on LI has been incorrect.
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Old 11-15-2010, 02:03 PM
 
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Wait it out Dman. The universe will align and people who overpaid for Co-ops will be able to get out at the same time house prices half, then suddenly triple in value.
For the record, pretty much every opinion you have stated about the RE market on LI has been incorrect.
2 Men Enter...1 Man Leaves
The C-D Smackdown is on.
Zilla V. Dman
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Old 11-15-2010, 02:08 PM
 
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2 Men Enter...1 Man Leaves
The C-D Smackdown is on.
Zilla V. Dman

Careful bud. I got rid of you for a few months there.
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Old 11-15-2010, 02:15 PM
 
Location: under the beautiful Carolina blue
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No, there's little chance of owning something nice in that price point with the taxes you desire, unfortunately.

And just to make you feel better - there's little chance of sailing into NY and getting all the special ed services you need or want just as soon as you enroll your son in school. I know several people with kids with serious special ed needs and they have to fight for it every step of the way, and yes - moms who have been there are the ones who show the way. Good luck to you, because NY is looking to cut special ed services, it was in Newsday 2 days ago.
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Old 11-15-2010, 02:19 PM
 
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With your post you have taken that record.
No I haven't, I simply pointed out how wrong you've been on the real estate market over the last year.
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You should pay more attention to the big picture.
I do - I also pay attention to those who push an opinion like it's fact when it's been wrong for over a year. Keep it up though, even a broken clock is correct 2x a day.
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