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Old 11-03-2014, 09:37 AM
 
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Sad story but why did the media show her face?

It will be hard for her to date in the future since this incident will definitely hinder her future relationships.

I guess some men can't take rejection.


Murder-suicide by jealous ex-boyfriend leaves two dead outside Long Island bar - AOL.com
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Old 11-04-2014, 06:26 AM
 
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What a loser, killing himself over a girl. Be a man and serve the time.
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Old 11-04-2014, 06:56 AM
 
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I wouldn't date her. The guy no doubt might have had mental problems, but I wonder if she did anything to set him off into a rage. I wouldn't take that risk.
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Old 11-04-2014, 07:41 AM
 
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Default Hmm interesting

Yeah, there is always more to a story that what the media portrays. I am sure she is no angel herself and may have contributed to his mental breakdown.
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Old 11-04-2014, 10:00 AM
 
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I wouldn't date her. The guy no doubt might have had mental problems, but I wonder if she did anything to set him off into a rage. I wouldn't take that risk.
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Yeah, there is always more to a story that what the media portrays. I am sure she is no angel herself and may have contributed to his mental breakdown.

What!?!?


My girlfriend's teen daughter was murdered in a similar situation...a mentally unstable ex-boyfriend. Sadly it happened 8 years to the day of this sad story.
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Old 11-04-2014, 03:53 PM
 
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Yeah, there is always more to a story that what the media portrays. I am sure she is no angel herself and may have contributed to his mental breakdown.
Sorry but you gotta be pretty crazy to kill someone and yourself, over a girl. She probably left him b/c he was crazy.
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Old 11-04-2014, 03:57 PM
 
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.depending about these things. The world is really derailed and nobody cares. People need to feel happy and loved, and experience life. :: Just read article:: Whatever it is. It is most likely the woman. Chances are she blewed him off, and decided to run away from him. When you want to end any relationship women. Make sure to give him an hug, and say. 1. We can talk and interact but right now as that level of friendship no. 2. I need some time to myself, and for my own needs please understand me if you have any feelings for me. I need my space to think.

..........

What happens is that "Girls" just decide to say. fook off. or even showboat her boyfriend. You can't do that ladies at all. You have to show a center ground.

Only time that works is with an childish person ( blank slate of an person ) that shows no or barely any emotion or interest at all.

Some people are helpless and just needs as much attention for anything at all. People need love too as well.

...........

Had a family member who passed away early ( no medical reason STRESS ) because his gal-pal put some rubbish dude on the phone who made direct threats to him. He wanted to fight the guy but we all said no. We should have just let him do his business and talk to his gal-pal.

He invested so much time with her. His inheritance and everything.

.................

I mean seriously men have to watch their backs and understand the true nature of women.

Thanks to the anti-privacy laws we can't escape the problematic needs of women in our lives. The state does not care and the federal government does not care.

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Old 11-04-2014, 04:04 PM
 
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Yeah, there is always more to a story that what the media portrays. I am sure she is no angel herself and may have contributed to his mental breakdown.
Why in the world would you even suggest that his mental breakdown was her fault?
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Old 11-04-2014, 04:44 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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.depending about these things. The world is really derailed and nobody cares. People need to feel happy and loved, and experience life. :: Just read article:: Whatever it is. It is most likely the woman. Chances are she blewed him off, and decided to run away from him. When you want to end any relationship women. Make sure to give him an hug, and say. 1. We can talk and interact but right now as that level of friendship no. 2. I need some time to myself, and for my own needs please understand me if you have any feelings for me. I need my space to think.

..........

What happens is that "Girls" just decide to say. fook off. or even showboat her boyfriend. You can't do that ladies at all. You have to show a center ground.

Only time that works is with an childish person ( blank slate of an person ) that shows no or barely any emotion or interest at all.

Some people are helpless and just needs as much attention for anything at all. People need love too as well.

...........

Had a family member who passed away early ( no medical reason STRESS ) because his gal-pal put some rubbish dude on the phone who made direct threats to him. He wanted to fight the guy but we all said no. We should have just let him do his business and talk to his gal-pal.

He invested so much time with her. His inheritance and everything.

.................

I mean seriously men have to watch their backs and understand the true nature of women.

Thanks to the anti-privacy laws we can't escape the problematic needs of women in our lives. The state does not care and the federal government does not care.

What the heck?!?! So how do you know how their relationship ended??? For all you know he could have been a controlling unstable SOB.

And being nice & kind puts you in the grave too when it comes to unstable people.

It's a bit disconcerting that you're justifying the attempted murder/murder-suicide in your head.
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Old 11-05-2014, 01:40 PM
 
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What a loser, killing himself over a girl. Be a man and serve the time.
So he was ok killing the guy, he's just a loser for commiting suicide instead of going to jail? Your thinkings a bit off mate.
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