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Old 06-29-2011, 09:52 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Well its not like I'm doing anything besides going to work and staying home for the next few weeks. She was even the advocate of me doing this and I use to say no way. Then I realized I have to because I'm not living like a poor man trying to raise a family the rest of my life.

This belongs in the Relationship forum...
Its not a mental health issue..
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Old 06-29-2011, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Murphy, NC
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So how old are you? You pay rent in your parents house right?
You seem very immature..
That would be stupid to pay rent at my parents that would defeat half the purpose of coming here. They can do for themselves so at this point I want to become strong so in the future I can take care of them if I had to. I'm 24 and been through all that **** so don't even flame.
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Old 06-29-2011, 09:55 AM
 
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If you are so young that you can live with your parents and work, sounds like you are trying to get your act together and think forward. No need for relationships right now. Only see her on an as needed basis if at all. If you were a woman making this thread, you wouldn't be getting all the negative responses.

Make things right with yourself, before you try and make them right with others.
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Old 06-29-2011, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Murphy, NC
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It sounds like a balancing issue. Doesn't mean you're a bad person, just that you are unable to balance your work goal with a relationship. Work is interfering with your relationship. You may have to choose between one of them.
Yea. I don't like doing 2 things. I'm better doing one at a time.
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Old 06-29-2011, 10:15 AM
 
Location: colorado
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That would be stupid to pay rent at my parents that would defeat half the purpose of coming here. They can do for themselves so at this point I want to become strong so in the future I can take care of them if I had to. I'm 24 and been through all that **** so don't even flame.
Ok 24? and not paying rent?
Yes I'm right your way too immature..
Apparently your parents didn't raise you how to be an adult with responsibilities..how sad..
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Old 06-29-2011, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Murphy, NC
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Ok 24? and not paying rent?
Yes I'm right your way too immature..
Apparently your parents didn't raise you how to be an adult with responsibilities..how sad..
I drove from the day I turned 17 and had 5 apartments in 3 different cities, went to 3 colleges, and supported my mom for 2 years and reached a creditscore of 900+. How many of those have u done? Now I'm saving for a pad on several acres and then I'll be the big boss of the family. Being responsible isn't spending ur ass off contrary to what media says.
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Old 06-29-2011, 10:30 AM
 
Location: colorado
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I drove from the day I turned 17 and had 5 apartments in 3 different cities, went to 3 colleges, and supported my mom for 2 years and reached a creditscore of 900+. How many of those have u done? Now I'm saving for a pad on several acres and then I'll be the big boss of the family. Being responsible isn't spending ur ass off contrary to what media says.

and you still cant pay rent?..do you just move from place to place?..go from school to school? wow..you still haven't grown up..
Time to be a man...
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Old 06-29-2011, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Valentine, Kansas City, MO, US
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Has to be a troll...
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Old 07-02-2011, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Indiana
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I drove from the day I turned 17 and had 5 apartments in 3 different cities, went to 3 colleges, and supported my mom for 2 years and reached a creditscore of 900+. How many of those have u done? Now I'm saving for a pad on several acres and then I'll be the big boss of the family. Being responsible isn't spending ur ass off contrary to what media says.

The highest FICO credit score is 850.
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Old 07-03-2011, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Bed Stuy, do or die
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Jeep girl u have a big mouth. Don't say things bigger than you. You look like a little kid trying to backtalk.
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