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Old 06-05-2012, 04:42 AM
 
Location: Cartersville, GA
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I don't know about any 'research' that someone sitting behind a desk did, I am talking about myself and what I been through personally. So the "proof" of the inefficiency of some damn counseling on these matters is right here: it doesn't work. Take it or leave it.
This is akin to saying that no one should eat asparagus because I do not like it. What does not work for me may nonetheless work well for millions of other individuals.
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Old 06-05-2012, 08:46 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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This is akin to saying that no one should eat asparagus because I do not like it. What does not work for me may nonetheless work well for millions of other individuals.

I never said whatever you did, didn't work.... I said none of that therapy crap ever worked for me. So as far as I'm concerned it doesn't work. You seem to have an issue with me saying, what didn't work for me. How you can determine that one way or the other, I don't know.

If it worked for you then that's your buisness but IMO the whole therapy process is a fu*king joke.
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Old 06-05-2012, 08:49 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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This is akin to telling someone with chest pain that there is no reason to see a doctor, because there is nothing that can be done. There are a multitude of therapeutic techniques that have been proven to be effective in the treatment of sexual dysfunction.



A well worded response. With this attitude, treatment is even more likely to be successful.

Again, you don't know what kind of attitude I had when I did therapy, so telling folks a 'positive attitude' is going to equal success in therapy is laughable. Therapy is really helping a lot of people out there, that's why so many are still so fu*ked up. Sure some of them had a 'positive attitude' going into too, didn't seem to change much.
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Old 06-05-2012, 09:23 PM
 
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I don't know what therapy is supposed to do, it's not going to do anything actually. If you has a sex aversion, there's not a 'regular' man in the modern world that wants a woman with this, they're way to wrapped up in sex/sexuality for it. Sorry to tell you.
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I never said whatever you did, didn't work.... I said none of that therapy crap ever worked for me. So as far as I'm concerned it doesn't work. You seem to have an issue with me saying, what didn't work for me. How you can determine that one way or the other, I don't know.

If it worked for you then that's your buisness but IMO the whole therapy process is a fu*king joke.

Yes, you did. You say it was not going to work with me and that not a regular man would want a woman like me. And you assumed that as it did not work for you then it would not work for me. Again, you are wrong. If you just stop looking for help and you determine that nothing works for you then you have another problem. When someone says that it's going to look for help and you can't encourage them and just have negative things to say then don't say anything at all! Having that kind of concept about life just sucks, it doesn't help and it's not real.
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Old 06-06-2012, 02:47 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Yes, you did. You say it was not going to work with me and that not a regular man would want a woman like me. And you assumed that as it did not work for you then it would not work for me. Again, you are wrong. If you just stop looking for help and you determine that nothing works for you then you have another problem. When someone says that it's going to look for help and you can't encourage them and just have negative things to say then don't say anything at all! Having that kind of concept about life just sucks, it doesn't help and it's not real.

Yes, you're right I did say that: Because in my personal experience no regular men do not want women with any kind of sexual disorders. So no I do not think therapy is going to 'fix this' nor do I think men lust after women with sexual disorders. This is my opinion, not the Gospel. If you want to seek therapy then it's no skin off my back.

If you think you're going to conduct me on what to say, you're wasting your time, LOL. If you wanted me to kiss your behind and tell you "there, there, everything is going to work out," look elsewhere. You posted a thread, I told you my experience, take it or leave it, I really don't care what you do. bye.
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Old 06-06-2012, 08:11 PM
 
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Yes, you're right I did say that: Because in my personal experience no regular men do not want women with any kind of sexual disorders. So no I do not think therapy is going to 'fix this' nor do I think men lust after women with sexual disorders. This is my opinion, not the Gospel. If you want to seek therapy then it's no skin off my back.

If you think you're going to conduct me on what to say, you're wasting your time, LOL. If you wanted me to kiss your behind and tell you "there, there, everything is going to work out," look elsewhere. You posted a thread, I told you my experience, take it or leave it, I really don't care what you do. bye.
And men and women don't like people with this kind of thinking. So pessimistic, so depressant, so empty.

Your experience is sad and your advices are useless. So, I leave it.

Bye.

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