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Well, might as well share my story and hope someone tries to help me out.
The kind of girls I am attracted to are White and European, I don't know why but I just am. The girls I have mostly been with have been either Latina or Mixed Race. Now generally, I think I am an alright looking guy. Got accepted into beautifulpeople.com without any issues and I have been told I am handsome a few times.
Thing is, I live in the deep south where people generally stick to their own race. I am Indian ethnically (India) but was born and raised in the USA.
I really want to date girls who are White and have asked some out but it hasn't really gone anywhere. I mean I get depressed about this sometimes and feel like wanting to discuss it on the internet or talk about it obsessively. Sometimes I go to sleep at night just thinking about this.
I hear about how even in places like Canada and the big cities, it is unheard of to see Indian men date White women.
I know you guys will say "well be open minded and date other races, forget about White girls" but honestly those are the kind of girls I love the most and am the most attracted to. Then you will say "well you can't expect to be mad at White women for not dating you then" for which I will argue with you and this thread will end up a mess.
I honestly want a solution for my problem other than that. I honestly want to know of a place on this planet where an Indian guy who looks good himself and has his things together can date attractive White girls without any issues. Where most women who are White won't hold guy being Indian against him.
Or I want something to help me recover from this depression, any ideas?
I understand about having a preference regarding women. I was married to a black gal, and I'm white. But really its not the color of the person its what they are inside that matters most. Of course you want someone you find attractive, but having common interests, goals, and finding a gal you can be with for life is the most important thing. At least thats how I see it. But I don't know what your motives are. Finding the right person for a ltr and marriage, isn't always an easy thing. I knew a white gal that married a guy from Qatar, they met online. So it does happen. The more obsessed you become the more it shows when you speak to women. One of the articles suggest eastern Europe as there are few Indian males there, or places in the states with a lesser number of Indian males. The articles suggests losing any accent one may have and do more to not being thought of as the typical beta type geek kinda guy. Sites like beautiful people, I think you are going to find the wrong type there. Good luck.
but none of those fulfill me, I don't want common interests and all that, I just want to hook up with girls I find attractive and that is it. maybe it is because I am young but I just find no satisfaction in common interests and all that.
culturally I am an American but I fear traveling to newer areas because I feel that I would never get to show the world who I really am because of my skin color and ethnic appearance.
How old are you? So you just want to screw em and leave them. I guess you need to find the superficial slutty party type of girl. Seems there are a lot around these days. Girls looking for more depth to a relationship will likely see you as not their cup of tea, no matter what you look like. I never cared for girls that were cheap and shallow.
but none of those fulfill me, I don't want common interests and all that, I just want to hook up with girls I find attractive and that is it. maybe it is because I am young but I just find no satisfaction in common interests and all that.
culturally I am an American but I fear traveling to newer areas because I feel that I would never get to show the world who I really am because of my skin color and ethnic appearance.
Well, if you're only looking to get laid, then I would suggest you hire an attractive White prostitute.
How old are you? So you just want to screw em and leave them. I guess you need to find the superficial slutty party type of girl. Seems there are a lot around these days. Girls looking for more depth to a relationship will likely see you as not their cup of tea, no matter what you look like. I never cared for girls that were cheap and shallow.
Well, if you're only looking to get laid, then I would suggest you hire an attractive White prostitute.
it has to feel like I somehow earned it
I am not opposed to escorts but that is a last resort. Right now I am in the south, I am thinking maybe move to an area of the USA where women are more open minded, if anyone has suggestions with that.
I also think the reason you're not "getting" White girls is because you let them know you're only interested in "hooking up" --- whether verbally or by your actions.
When I was younger, I HATED being approached by Indian guys because they were so skeevy and letting you know they just wanted sex. You would practically have to punch them dead in the face for them to get the message. Yes, I know that not ALL Indian guys are like that but you obviously are.
Like I said in my last post, you'd be much better off and a lot happier if you just went out and got yourself a hooker.
It's not your "self esteem" or "depression" that's your problem ---- you're a sleeze just looking to bang a White girl. Disgusting.
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