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Old 05-17-2015, 10:38 AM
 
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Hi so i am feeling something and idk what it is.
It started 19 weeks ago at the movies. i held this girl at the movie and the next day i felt really bad or guilty or something and i remembered something that i did in my past and i felt really terrible. The feeling stuck with me for a while. then yesterday i held a different girl and today i kind of feel the same way. I dont know what i am feeling but i hate it please help PLEASE
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Old 05-17-2015, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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What do you mean by you "held" a girl. Do you mean you had your arm around her at the movies or held hands or something else? What was the "thing in the past?" Really not enough information here for anyone to help you.
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:13 AM
 
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yes i had my arm around her not a big deal but i guess it was just being with her and idk if i should say what it was
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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If holding a girl feels terrible, bad and guilty, then you need to re-evaluate your feelings toward girls...
Looks like you don't like them much...
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:18 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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yes i had my arm around her not a big deal but i guess it was just being with her and idk if i should say what it was
It's simple. If you want help you need to be specific.
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:20 AM
 
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aye,

STOP "helding" girls

it obviously effects you in a negative way


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Old 05-17-2015, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Self explanatory
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Sounds like a clear case of the cooties to me.
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:26 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Clearly some guilt that is causing you to be unable to have physical contact with women. Have you faced what happened? Spoke to a therapist or received forgiveness from the person or persons it happened to? Whats going on with this?
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Old 05-17-2015, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Try holding a guy and if it feels good then your problem is solved.
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Old 05-17-2015, 12:12 PM
 
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im not gay. i love the girl that i am with and i just feel like in the future il never get past this feeling
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