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Old 06-09-2015, 01:15 PM
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I apoligize it's not on this section of the forum. I posted a few times on this subcategory so maybe have a general idea what's going on. I feel lost in life with direction and purpose. I have difficulty deciding what I want to do because so many people try to control my life I need constant reassurance on thing's. I notice a lot of people judge criticize mske fun of people myself with our questions. Couldn't you just consider what's going on in our lives be a bit more considerate.

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Old 06-11-2015, 02:41 PM
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I wish I could help you.
Are you young?
Are you out on your own?
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Old 06-12-2015, 10:35 AM
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All my life I have been curious and have asked people questions. Many are happy to provide answers (the more intelligent), but some people have given me nasty replies, said I did not need to know, or ridiculed me (these people are ignorant types).

And in school classes or at work, I have ALWAYS asked questions about things I do not understand. And keep asking until I do understand. Any you know what? There are ALWAYS other people in the class who wanted to know the same thing, but were too timid to ask.

Anyway I am much older now and can now fix just about anything in my house and service my cars. I can do this because of learning and asking questions - watching other people build or fix things. And reading many books too.

So I now laugh at these idiots who are opposed to "question asking", yet can't fix anything themselves and need to call me. I shouldn't help them, but I sometimes do.

Anyway keep asking questions and ignore those who do not understand the value of knowledge. There are more stupid people around than ever now (they are all texting, don't read books, and don't bother making the effort to learn anything), so they will need to rely on the few intelligent people around later on. One of those will be you!
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Old 06-15-2015, 07:19 PM
Location: Sector 001
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Need to have a thick skin... gossip is what people eat up.. when they make fun of you it's really just a reflection of themselves and their own emotional issues... it's really themselves they are not happy with when they make fun of someone else.. it's a way to boost their own self esteem.

Those who truly vibrate at a high level of consciousness (there are actually one or two where I work) have a bad thing to say about nobody and you can tell by the look on their face and the words that come out of their mouths they are spiritually advanced.. (I am not one of them)
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Old 06-16-2015, 01:24 AM
Location: Under the Redwoods
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Ignore the people who are nasty or judge. Thier opinions and thoughts are not the ones you should be listening to.

Had a young woman working for me, she was not amused by the teasing she would get from some co-workers. I informed her that there are only two reasons people tease; they like you or they are jealous.
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