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Old 08-02-2015, 09:36 AM
 
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Hi, I know shouldn't bite the hand that supports me letting me stay at home. My life is in the shutter only good thing going for me is my fiancé.

I lost my job about a year and half ago. Since then having difficulty finding work or work is not enough to live on my own. I have $1200 worth of debt/bill's/car payments/taxes/insurance to pay. I make about $1600 a month. I pay my mom $280-$300 a month.

My mom continues to berate me calling me fat, I have a gut, suck it in. Your not going to get married. Going on about my taxes how I will have no money left. How I handle my life wrong. How she cant wait until i am no longer her life problem. How I screwed my life up. Blaming me for breaking her computer haven't touched it.

Anyways went off called her the F word all this and she started swearing back. She went on how I am trash. She started slamming door's it was a hot mess. I went on about how the money I give her for rent/food goes to cigarettes and alcohol. Says it's my money will spend it how I like. Says doesn't want any apologies and how I am such a nasty person.

I don't know what to do. It was so heated really should of stopped myself, but the frustration took over. All over a stupid thing about how she thought the laptop charger wasn't the right charger how she knows everything. Where I explained it says it right there it was it. Then just became frustrated and let out my anger with everything she said earlier today this week.

Not sure if my mom will let me come home after work

Maybe get my things guess it is for the best.

Can live in my car for a month till I get money to rent a room at the Y.
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Old 08-02-2015, 09:59 AM
 
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This is what, the third or fourth thread about how horrible it is living with your mother? The advice isn't going to change, refer back to what has already been said.
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Old 08-02-2015, 10:26 AM
 
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Just in need of a vent
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Old 08-04-2015, 08:25 PM
 
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Hi, I know shouldn't bite the hand that supports me letting me stay at home. My life is in the shutter only good thing going for me is my fiancé.

I lost my job about a year and half ago. Since then having difficulty finding work or work is not enough to live on my own. I have $1200 worth of debt/bill's/car payments/taxes/insurance to pay. I make about $1600 a month. I pay my mom $280-$300 a month.

My mom continues to berate me calling me fat, I have a gut, suck it in. Your not going to get married. Going on about my taxes how I will have no money left. How I handle my life wrong. How she cant wait until i am no longer her life problem. How I screwed my life up. Blaming me for breaking her computer haven't touched it.

Anyways went off called her the F word all this and she started swearing back. She went on how I am trash. She started slamming door's it was a hot mess. I went on about how the money I give her for rent/food goes to cigarettes and alcohol. Says it's my money will spend it how I like. Says doesn't want any apologies and how I am such a nasty person.

I don't know what to do. It was so heated really should of stopped myself, but the frustration took over. All over a stupid thing about how she thought the laptop charger wasn't the right charger how she knows everything. Where I explained it says it right there it was it. Then just became frustrated and let out my anger with everything she said earlier today this week.

Not sure if my mom will let me come home after work

Maybe get my things guess it is for the best.

Can live in my car for a month till I get money to rent a room at the Y.
You're engaged? Where does your fiancé live? Where do you two plan to live after marriage? Can you live with him now?
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