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Old 07-26-2017, 01:49 PM
 
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I think you are mistaken. She is an adult and only 2 years younger than me...
She's your cousin. I stand by my previous post.

 
Old 07-26-2017, 02:18 PM
 
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She's your cousin. I stand by my previous post.
it's okay, I dont believe it's wrong and I wouldnt have kids with her, plus she's already married with kids in another country and I dont find her attractive anymore...
 
Old 07-26-2017, 04:23 PM
 
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I'm not worried about the second cousin or whatever relation that is, but for the fears is what you need to seek therapy for.
 
Old 07-27-2017, 05:07 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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OP. it's beginning to look like our goal in posting is to gain responses so you can argue with them. That's not going to help you if, in fact, you're really looking for help.
 
Old 07-28-2017, 01:02 PM
 
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I'm not worried about the second cousin or whatever relation that is, but for the fears is what you need to seek therapy for.
I've decided a long time ago that when my parents are gone and I will be older I will one day say hi to a girl I find attractive and that's it really but it took a lifetime, still if I had a gf I would be putting hidden cameras in my house and car and audio devices just in case I die and she did it and there was evidence on video or audio she would get caught
 
Old 07-28-2017, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Des Moines Metro
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OP. it's beginning to look like our goal in posting is to gain responses so you can argue with them. That's not going to help you if, in fact, you're really looking for help.
This ^^^^

You also referred to "my country." Perhaps arranged marriages are the norm? If so, maybe chat with an elder about some "introductions."
 
Old 07-28-2017, 01:22 PM
 
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I've decided a long time ago that when my parents are gone and I will be older I will one day say hi to a girl I find attractive and that's it really but it took a lifetime, still if I had a gf I would be putting hidden cameras in my house and car and audio devices just in case I die and she did it and there was evidence on video or audio she would get caught

Statistically speaking, your wife or girlfriend would have a much greater chance of being killed by you than vice versa. So yes, definitely setup those cameras.
 
Old 07-28-2017, 01:38 PM
 
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Statistically speaking, your wife or girlfriend would have a much greater chance of being killed by you than vice versa. So yes, definitely setup those cameras.
I'm against killing, especially killing animals
 
Old 07-28-2017, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Islip,NY
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who date's their cousin and has sexual fantasies about them, that's just sick. Please get help. Being afraid of Girls is not normal. Did something happen to you as a child that makes you have this fear? Putting up cameras and surveillance in your car and house is creepy. What country are you from??? if a girl finds out that she's been taped she will most likely report it to the cops. I know I would if it were me.
 
Old 07-28-2017, 08:40 PM
 
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who date's their cousin and has sexual fantasies about them, that's just sick. Please get help. Being afraid of Girls is not normal. Did something happen to you as a child that makes you have this fear? Putting up cameras and surveillance in your car and house is creepy. What country are you from??? if a girl finds out that she's been taped she will most likely report it to the cops. I know I would if it were me.
well, I said if I was dating, I don't have cameras in the house or in my car, but if you think about the cases you hear about on the news about guys who were used or killed by their girlfriends or wives then the camera idea would have been a great idea. Too many gold diggers out there trying to use guys for money. There are even many Youtube videos out there exposing these females. I never dated a cousin... A fantasy is just thoughts. You cannot stop thoughts and they are not wrong because in reality it isn't an act.... Plus you have to respect people's personal beliefs or religious beliefs when it comes to incest. She is only 2 years young than me... I haven't seen her for over 10 years, actually it's more than that, and I only got to see her for 2 months in person, now she is married with kids and is fat and lives in another country. Me actually dating her and having sex with her is very unlikely to happen.

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