Not performing well in school. Settle in life (child, get, tell)

[nottrah12]

School stressing me out. I am performing badly in school and so much work to do. Very demanding school and in lots of debt. If i flunk out I will probably dissappear from my family. I won’t tell them I flunk out never go back home. It is too embarrassing. No career = no money no girlfriend tough hard labored jobs that are soul,crushing. It sucks. I try and I still fail. That is the worst part.

[purehuman]

I know a number of people who never finished school...hold good paying jobs...have wives or girlfriends, children...are making ends meet and are happy in life.
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I know a number of people who finished school...even went to college...who can't find work...and are very unhappy that they spent so much money (or got a loan) getting a degree for a job they can't find.
Just do your best....your analogy is totally incorrect..not true at all.

[High Altitude]

Originally Posted by nottrah12

School stressing me out. I am performing badly in school and so much work to do. Very demanding school and in lots of debt. If i flunk out I will probably dissappear from my family. I won’t tell them I flunk out never go back home. It is too embarrassing. No career = no money no girlfriend tough hard labored jobs that are soul,crushing. It sucks. I try and I still fail. That is the worst part.

What are you interested in doing?

Not everything requires a degree. Only about 25% of the population in the USA have 4 year bachelor degrees or better. And, lots of those 25% with degrees don't even work jobs that require degrees.

If school isn't for you, switch gears and do something else. You can have a very full life without a college degree.