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Old 09-27-2020, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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I don't know about anyone else but with this COVID thing the lonliness has gotten to be pretty overwhelming. Anyone else struggling right now?
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Old 09-27-2020, 10:09 PM
 
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I don't know about all of you but I also have anxiety and depression so the lonliness makes this all worse. I try to keep entertained but sometimes it's not enough.
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Old 09-28-2020, 07:41 AM
 
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This pandemic is extra tough for those of us with depression and anxiety. I have gone through waves of doing ok, then dipping into periods of sadness or intense anxiety. Before it started in March I had tapered off my anxiety medicine, but I’m back on it. It’s discouraging.

I’m not that social anyway but no interaction is another level. It’s a struggle.
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Old 09-28-2020, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I don't suffer from anxiety or depression myself, but I'm empathetic to those who are during this time. At least we're ALL in the same boat & not just one state or country, but the ENTIRE WORLD. All we can do is hang in there & do our best.

I never was the social type anyway & could be just as happy at home, so it's fine. The only difference is, I'm not going to the places I like because they're closed (malls, museums, amusement parks, movies). I always liked grocery shopping so at least I still get to do that. I've always loved TV since I was a child, so I'm still enjoying that! And being on the computer helps a lot too.

It gets a little tiring, but we can't do anything about it.

I wish everyone out there well & to stay in a positive mindset!
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Old 09-28-2020, 06:46 PM
 
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I’m an introvert but also have struggled in this Covid era. It’s rough. I feel like part of the struggle is how disconnected people have become even through simple things like seeing strangers at the grocery store. I’m also a sensitive person and do pick up on other people’s feelings and emotions and there is a lot fo anger and a sadness in the air. I also see my kids struggling with this and that just adds to it all.
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Old 09-28-2020, 08:08 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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This pandemic is extra tough for those of us with depression and anxiety. I have gone through waves of doing ok, then dipping into periods of sadness or intense anxiety. Before it started in March I had tapered off my anxiety medicine, but I’m back on it. It’s discouraging.

I’m not that social anyway but no interaction is another level. It’s a struggle.
I've been in a terrible low slump. I get sad and start crying for no reason at times. Sometimes in the middle of work. It's a pain. I'm on 2 meds for the anxiety. Loss of appetite. Sleeping more. Don't much care about anything. I'm not a socialite either. But not seeing anyone...even family is starting to get to me.
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Old 09-28-2020, 08:10 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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I don't suffer from anxiety or depression myself, but I'm empathetic to those who are during this time. At least we're ALL in the same boat & not just one state or country, but the ENTIRE WORLD. All we can do is hang in there & do our best.

I never was the social type anyway & could be just as happy at home, so it's fine. The only difference is, I'm not going to the places I like because they're closed (malls, museums, amusement parks, movies). I always liked grocery shopping so at least I still get to do that. I've always loved TV since I was a child, so I'm still enjoying that! And being on the computer helps a lot too.

It gets a little tiring, but we can't do anything about it.

I wish everyone out there well & to stay in a positive mindset!
Yup. That's all we can do is just hang in there. My anxiety isn't as high as it was in the beginning. Oh Lord. I was a mess when this first started.
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Old 09-28-2020, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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Also having to look at masks all day with no faces feels like something from a horror movie. It's a daily reminder of the danger we're in and why we're so alone.


Are any of you experiencing times where you feel more irritable?
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Old 09-28-2020, 08:17 PM
 
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Also having to look at masks all day with no faces feels like something from a horror movie. It's a daily reminder of the danger we're in and why we're so alone.


Are any of you experiencing times where you feel more irritable?
Definitely more irritable then usual.
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Old 09-29-2020, 06:24 AM
 
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I think this video is helpful. It doesn't deny the loneliness or any other unwanted feelings, but encourages leaning into it and coming to terms with it:


https://www.karmatube.org/videos.php...aBXAzSvx15AvOM
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