How is the dating scene? (Miami, University: renting, university, live)

[Ddan91]

I'm an 19 yrs AA male about to attend the University of Miami Or Florida International University next year. I have a family member who lives down in south beach and she enjoys it. Do you need to know how to speak spanish for meeting women?

[xS☺B☺s]

Originally Posted by Ddan91

I'm an 19 yrs AA male about to attend the University of Miami Or Florida International University next year. I have a family member who lives down in south beach and she enjoys it. Do you need to know how to speak spanish for meeting women?

All you need to do to meet women in South Beach is leave your door open.

[Slyman11]

No you don't need Spanish but it would help if you know it. Miami's dating scene depends on how hard you put an effort IMO

[hmontaq]

Worst place to date ever unless you got money or fake that you got money... Get a hobby, focus on your future, and if you happen to meet someone then consider yourself lucky... maybe. Forget everything I said if your player skills are strong.

[Glasvegas]

My advice for how to date in Miami:

1) Either have money, or pretend you do, by renting an expensive car and cruising around South Beach.

2) Do not be a gentleman - be THE MAN.

3) Make sure you hit the gym at least twice a day (and be sure to mention that, along with how many lbs you can bench press).

4) Do not discuss anything remotely intellectual, like books, politics or news, for example.

5) Talk about yourself a lot, be a narcissist.

6) Do not call her back. Disappear, then let her do the chasing.

7) Act macho, even if that's not in your nature.

8) When on a date with her, be sure to check out other women.

9) Be sure to tell her what to do; what she can and cannot wear / eat.

10) If it gets serious, cheat (or she'll beat you to it), or at the very least, spend more time with your friends than with her so that she automatically assumes you're cheating.

[WINTERFRONT]

That's maybe for SOBE girls, but that doesn't apply to the regula Miami gurl.

Miami girls are very faithful, adorable, cool, open minded, family oriented and fun.

I'm not being sarcastic, btw. I'm just telling the truth.

[hmontaq]

Originally Posted by Glasvegas

My advice for how to date in Miami:

1) Either have money, or pretend you do, by renting an expensive car and cruising around South Beach.

2) Do not be a gentleman - be THE MAN.

3) Make sure you hit the gym at least twice a day (and be sure to mention that, along with how many lbs you can bench press).

4) Do not discuss anything remotely intellectual, like books, politics or news, for example.

5) Talk about yourself a lot, be a narcissist.

6) Do not call her back. Disappear, then let her do the chasing.

7) Act macho, even if that's not in your nature.

8) When on a date with her, be sure to check out other women.

9) Be sure to tell her what to do; what she can and cannot wear / eat.

10) If it gets serious, cheat (or she'll beat you to it), or at the very least, spend more time with your friends than with her so that she automatically assumes you're cheating.

#11 would be the new term called "swagger" which was once called style...

Well said in many ways... Sad but true cold hard Miami reality for MEN. Sorry to say crossing a bridge doesnt change this fact its all over the place. I wish I could do this but I just dont have the heart for it. I am a nice guy and these women will chew me up and spit me out. A few have...

[Glasvegas]

Originally Posted by hmontaq

#11 would be the new term called "swagger" which was once called style...

Well said in many ways... Sad but true cold hard Miami reality for MEN. Sorry to say crossing a bridge doesnt change this fact its all over the place. I wish I could do this but I just dont have the heart for it. I am a nice guy and these women will chew me up and spit me out. A few have...

I hate the word "swagger" or "swag". I prefer to refer to swaggery folk as d0uchebags.

[WINTERFRONT]

I'M a swagger

no kidding

[hmontaq]

A great girl I know that recently moved here calls the actions of these guys Miami Douchebagery. She is one of the 5% of the women this crap doesnt work on. The other 95% of so called ladies (being nice) left keep the game going.