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Old 10-24-2014, 12:16 PM
 
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Thats weird they would do that and not discharge him- id call GI Rights
Maybe because they see that something isn't right and instead of kicking him out, they actually care about their soldier and they want to make sure he gets the help he needs. IMO, this is good news and good for the soldier.
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Old 10-28-2014, 07:40 PM
 
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OP any updates? i hope he is doing well and getting the support and assistance he needs
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Old 10-29-2014, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I agree if he can get VA benifits he should go that route. If he's rated at least 30% that will help him a lot with future medical care.
VA benefits?????????

What, exactly, would he be a "veteran" of???
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Old 10-29-2014, 11:27 AM
 
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Just an update: he has an appt with their psych dr. He did not get in trouble. Got a "negative consequence", which I hear is basically like a warning. But I think they know something is a little "off", hence the dr. I'll update after Fridays appt. thanks for all your help!
After the OP described her son growing up, the first thing I thought of was mental issues. I can't believe he was encouraged to go into the military at all.

I had a feeling his little adventure into the military was going to go awry, after seeing the OP's posts asking about how hard is it to pass the grenades test, and how their family is all big on military, and how they are all talking about the issues he is having during Basic.

smh
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Old 10-29-2014, 09:07 PM
 
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After the OP described her son growing up, the first thing I thought of was mental issues. I can't believe he was encouraged to go into the military at all.

I had a feeling his little adventure into the military was going to go awry, after seeing the OP's posts asking about how hard is it to pass the grenades test, and how their family is all big on military, and how they are all talking about the issues he is having during Basic.

smh
Why don't people just wait to hear from the OP. It's so easy to second guess and say what should have been done. But none of us know the parents or this kid. So how can one know it all when we don't know the young man well or anything beyond what's posted. As she noted it was his desire and decision to join, he thought it would help him overcome some issues, and I suppose give him more confidence and so forth. I don't think mom said anything wrong in her posts here, in fact she has been quite patient with some posters playing armchair quarterback and psychologist. I just hope things will be OK and he can move past all this.
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Old 10-30-2014, 08:35 AM
 
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Because it's obvious the woman knows her son has these issues, and IMO, he shouldn't have been encouraged to go into the military to fix them; that's what doctors are for.

I, too, hope he gets the help he needs.
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Old 10-30-2014, 03:22 PM
 
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VA benefits?????????

What, exactly, would he be a "veteran" of???
A veteran of the military. If he is found to have a rateable disability he will get benifits.
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Old 10-30-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: New Mexico U.S.A.
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VA benefits?????????

What, exactly, would he be a "veteran" of???


From: Apply for Disability Compensation | Explore VA Benefits

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Disability Compensation

Veterans who have disabilities, medical conditions, or injuries incurred or aggravated during active military service—no matter when or where they served—may be eligible to receive tax-free monthly benefits.
And that is not the topic of this thread... So, it will end here.
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Old 10-30-2014, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Inland Empire, Calif
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She hasn't logged on since the 23rd, I don't think she wants to talk about it anymore..
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Old 10-30-2014, 04:41 PM
 
Location: New Mexico U.S.A.
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She hasn't logged on since the 23rd, I don't think she wants to talk about it anymore..
Sorry, that is not correct...
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