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Old 03-23-2010, 04:19 PM
 
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Okay my husband has let his nasty slob friend stay with us while he finds a job...My husband knew that Nashville wasnt in the best state for him to be looking for a job..Well anyways I know he isnt looking soo I am taking matters into my own hands.....So He is into photograph/management he wants both of course....Do anyone know of a job for him...one that will pay enough to get him out of my house.......He is 31 and has to be treated like a kid soo any help would be soo great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks ahead of time..
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Old 03-23-2010, 04:40 PM
 
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good luck with that. From your description I wouldn't hire him.
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Old 03-23-2010, 05:00 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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In this economy, you take what you can get until something better turns up. Throw him out and see if that motivates him.
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Old 03-23-2010, 05:15 PM
 
Location: The land of erternal summer to Murfreesboro, TN
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I agree with Rossc, boot him out!
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Old 03-23-2010, 08:15 PM
 
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I wish I could....But my husband wont allow that..I have told him I do not want him here a year....from the rate he is going he will be here that long..

UGH it drives me crazy....You know it sucks when u can be You in your own home...

He is a nice guy really but very lazy.....he has worked for his dad since he was young until he got the job that moved...
soo all he knows is photography.....
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Old 03-23-2010, 08:48 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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I wish I could....But my husband wont allow that..I have told him I do not want him here a year....from the rate he is going he will be here that long..

UGH it drives me crazy....You know it sucks when u can be You in your own home...

He is a nice guy really but very lazy.....he has worked for his dad since he was young until he got the job that moved...
soo all he knows is photography.....
Sounds like a bad situation. Either he leaves, you leave, or you allow him to stay. Maybe a discussion with your husband about a respect for your wishes over his friends' is in order.
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Old 03-23-2010, 09:00 PM
 
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To me my I feel that my husband doesnt understand adn i try to tell him....and he jsut doesnt listen..I know he enjoys having a friend around..But I really dont think he is a friend if we have to ask to him to clean..Im sure no one would do that....

I have really thought about leaving..But U know it shouldnt be me...I havent worked my butt off for a freeloader......I jsut wish he would get a job..I am praying that our internet goes out and stays off for a few weeks..LOL then on more game for him..
dunno thanks guys
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Old 03-23-2010, 09:05 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN
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You could adopt him and claim him as a dependent. Actually, I think you CAN claim someone who lives with you the entire year and does not contribute. Either that or something about claiming head of household.

Sounds like he's going to be with you for a while. Might as well take advantage of it if you can.
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Old 03-23-2010, 09:11 PM
 
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i will do that on my next taxes..he even if he has lived here half the year.....of course how can u tell a person w/ out having to telling them every week and month to wash their clothes and sheets.....

another question for ya...how do u get the smell of someone not cleaning themselves or the room they living in out....I have tried alot of stuff nothing soo far
(it is the smell of sweat tha thas laid on clothes for weeks)
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Old 03-23-2010, 09:19 PM
 
Location: On the plateau, TN
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i will do that on my next taxes..he even if he has lived here half the year.....of course how can u tell a person w/ out having to telling them every week and month to wash their clothes and sheets.....

another question for ya...how do u get the smell of someone not cleaning themselves or the room they living in out....I have tried alot of stuff nothing soo far
(it is the smell of sweat tha thas laid on clothes for weeks)
Ewwwwwww....that's it..... Throw the bum out....if hubby doesn't like it....throw him out also......
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