Uh....where do want to start? You need to find all the decent sized hospitals and work out from there. Hanover, New London, Concord, Manchester, Keene, etc, etc. Here's a link:
Map of Hospitals
You have tons of choices. I suggest you get a map of New Hampshire and start picking and choosing. Southern NH and along the seacoast are the most vibrant. The further north you get, the more isolated it becomes. A 30 min commute will put you far enough outside an urban area to get the house pricing you want, but don't be asking for too much. You are talking a very small two bedroom with a postage stamp sized lot; basically a starter home. Once you narrow down some choices, use the search tab above and go the advanced section. From there you can punch in town names, etc. to help you find previous posts and threads.