When we were looking to move to NH it was either to the Nashua area or Manchester area. Dh's job is in Manchester, so that's where we concentrated our focus. A lot of towns outside of Manchester have great schools, which was our top priority. When we visited we found the people very friendly and since moving to this area we've not met anyone to counteract that initial impression. Being pretty close to Manchester means being in proximity to some city conveniences, like restaurants and the like. However, it's not too far from places like orchards or other fun areas to take your kids. Being in the southern part of NH also means we're not far from the state line, which we like because we have family in MA. And that we can make the semi-regular pilgrimmage to Trader Joes
We're originally from a suburb of L.A so we didn't want to move to a place that was entirely rural. Actually where we ended up felt almost rural at first. Suburban NH and Suburban L.A are two entirely different planets!