kapil take it easy, its kind of same for me too
I moved to NJ
after that autism hit me, due to vaccines
I can imagine Memphis and other areas sucks in terms of spl education
they would probably put him in self contained.
here's my 2 cents
since your kid is HFA, you shld try for inclusion.
Now some districts will give it easily if your child is
verbal and talking sentences and with very lil behaviors
I know a family who got this easily in Edison, NJ
whereas we are fighting tooth and nail to get this.
generally districts to stay away are Edison, woodbridge,
piscatway, Newark, Elizabeth, jersey city etc etc
Where as around Morristown the school districts seems reasonable.
Another option is to try to put him in private schools,
either you pay >45K per yr from your pocket
or fight with the district ( this is very unlikely as you have
to prove to the court that the school district did not
make any improvements to your child, usually after
1 or 2 years in school)
Lucky for you, you are in NJ
Unlucky that you are not in Memphis
I Wish rest of country can learn some from NJ.