Hello
here is my dilemma .. unremoved garbage
to give you pretext I am in the process of a divorce and have taken on the responsibility of my homeless neice. plus some other things major stressors like irregular heart beat issues ...
so I moved to a ("premier" condo in an upscale area near Princeton -- on the ground floor 2 weeks ago so my neice 22yo can have her own room -- she was living in the living room
my new condo issues are erasing my last bit of sanity ..
As soon as I moved in the noise upstairs started. An older couple with dog shuffle their feet all day, wake up at 5 am then nap all day and go to sleep late - hardwood floors . My old condo was quiet as a mouse so it was jarring to wake up at 5 with them in this new place I paid more then double for. Okay I bought a sound machine and ear plugs -- problem somewhat solved
New problem -- GARBAGE rules not followed by residents - in front of my unit - garbage sits
The area directly in front of my door -a grass abutment (20 ft away) is used by the (5-6) neighbors to place their garbage bags which have to be black heavy duty. The first week someone uses a flimsy white bag so it is not picked up. It sits and sits in front of my unit like it is my garbage (note the assoc charges $50 fines) plus it looks like I as a new neigbor am causing this - I moved the garbage away me -- but my upstairs neighor (first contact) moves it back .. I talk to him but he seems ignorant of the rules, pooh poohs it and tells me not to lose sleep over it .. though he is quick to move the garbage away from his unit
I make 4-5 calls to management and send emails - getting wound up - before that garbage is finally removed the next week -- management leaves a note on everyone's door informing them of the sanitation policy - place garbage by their units curb and use black bags
Today - I walked out and al the garbage bags are in the same place I would not care if they were all removed .. but there is another white garbage bag which will be left over
.. I have to now see this garbage sit there everyday (next to rural area so rodents can come) or have to take my time to make calls again to corerect the problem sonmeone is callously causing for me. I feel the other residents dont care since it is not in front of them. but someone is breaking the rules and directly affecting me
I am ashamed to bring guests over who see the trash in front of my unit only.
What do I do?