I looked at Maplewood crossing. It didn't seem super secure to me. There was no attendant, you could drive right in the complex and the surrounding area seemed a little sketchy. I don't think I would feel safe there. Also, all the greenery they have on their website was not really there in reality.
I am going to check out Fort Lee. A friend also said it is a great area. And maybe south orange too. I guess I'll nix Avalon
Harmon Cove seems like the best bet so far. It's so cute and charming, is very affordable, has a great pool and seems very safe. Also very close to nyc.
You guys are so helpful here on this forum!!
thanks so much!