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[quote=Farhills Dad;2931486]Iapoligize if i may have come across angry. I have heard alot about this open forum and realize comments and opinions will be shared whether we like them or not but the comments where not directed at any one. As far as the question presented to you was have you ever given your all and recieved nothing back either recantly or in the past? i come in peace. I don't have issues with woman especially of my marriage or my present relationship they are two different people. This one is actually the closest to me. But it's just scary to open up again. I'm all for it but it's tough when kids are involved. I care for her kids and mine.[/quote
So it sounds like your telling me you have opened your heart and have done most of the giving and it sounds like you are not receiving the same back from her. Either she is just not that into you or she is just uncapable of doing so in the same manner as you are. We can't give what we don't already have to give. Either way it is a major problem and perhaps if you love her and care about her that much perhaps you both can go to a relationship counselor. I know alot of people do that now before they commit to a marriage and even into a very serious relationship. The key is to find happiness..no matter if that's by yourself or with someone else...I of course prefer with someone...but does that mean I can not be happy until Mr. Right comes along? I don't want to over simplify relationships because I am not all knowing or maybe I would be already with someone but don't ever give up hope....hope is what keeps us all going and makes us get up everyday.
I'm a resident of Far Hills and am so surprised to how much woman have changed in time. Don't get me wrong there are alot of great woman out there but what ever happened to the old fashioned, traditional woman. Have we turned to on line mating service. Need your help!!! Are we going in the wrong direction?
Forget old-fashioned and traditional, where are the easygoing, polyamorous, trisexual Libertarian chicks?
LOL - wiley's a gal. I've never heard the term "c-block" but it made me LMAO!!!! The first "C" i thought of was the female one, and I was like ....then you explained. LOL
I also thought he meant the female version ....it's been awhile since I've watched an Andrew Dice performance. This thread is hilarious! I think we can start our own match site and maybe make some extra$....Wiley should start a second career. LOL
I agree with your thoughts Basking Ridge mom. It is true happiness does come from within, and that is the root of all this. I do find extreme happiness with my kids and going out with friends and trips. I did have my doubts when my marriage ended and that was something i didn't think would happen. We where best friends. I guess even friends hurt one another. On a lighter note i do care for this girl i am with and we all need to be patiant with one another.
I have the answer to all yalls problems.......date all the sweet and charming people in the south, simple as that.....bye
Family included???
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