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Old 12-05-2008, 01:55 PM
 
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Here is a picture of the accused teacher Lisa Glide, taken from the APP. You certainly can't blame the 17 year old with his hormones a ragin'.

Full article here: Authorities: Teacher from Howell had sex with student | APP.com | Asbury Park Press
Did I mention that the sexist double standard here is completely offensive?
What if it were an attractive man and a 15 yr old GIRL we were talking about? Then it wouldn't be such a laughing matter, would it?

Alex has shared his own experiences here - which I think was cool of you to do Alex - and he's made it pretty clear as someone who has lived this that it is NOT a laughing matter.
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Old 12-05-2008, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Here but I spend time There.
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Did I mention that the sexist double standard here is completely offensive?
What if it were an attractive man and a 15 yr old GIRL we were talking about? Then it wouldn't be such a laughing matter, would it?

Alex has shared his own experiences here - which I think was cool of you to do Alex - and he's made it pretty clear as someone who has lived this that it is NOT a laughing matter.
From most males point of view, the experience is a fantasy come true (see Van Halen's Hot for Teacher for ref). But my point is, take the sexual gratification out of the equation and tell me what you have left, how can a minor deal w/ everything else when the adult holds the power? This is a subject that I'm very passionate about because of my own experience. Again, yes the sex was great, BUT remember this, most pedophiles is not about the sex, is about control.

And that's all I'm going to say about that. (Quoting forrest gump)
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Old 12-05-2008, 02:46 PM
 
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Well, it's like someone said earlier... now that we're adults you KNOW that no normal 35 yr old is going to be out there trying to bed a 15 yr old.
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Old 12-05-2008, 02:48 PM
 
Location: 32°19'03.7"N 106°43'55.9"W
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Well, it's like someone said earlier... now that we're adults you KNOW that no normal 35 yr old is going to be out there trying to bed a 15 yr old.
That's what I said before about most of the pictures that belie true appearances. Outwardly, she looks like a normal, attractive adult, but inwardly, the cheese fell off her cracker a long time ago.
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Old 12-05-2008, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Stewartsville, NJ
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That's what I said before about most of the pictures that belie true appearances. Outwardly, she looks like a normal, attractive adult, but inwardly, the cheese fell off her cracker a long time ago.
who said anything about morse?

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Old 12-05-2008, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Savannah GA/Lk Hopatcong NJ
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who said anything about morse?

LOL..bad girl Wiley bad girl
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Old 12-05-2008, 03:20 PM
 
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Much needed comic relief Wiley! LOL!

Actually, DH often says how when he was in HS there were some girls who were dating older guys... they'd come by the HS in their sports cars and pick them up and the HS guys would think "Oh they are so cool!" Then when they grew up and realized you are not COOL if you are a 26 yr old wanting to date in HS... you're a loser.
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Old 12-05-2008, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Some got six month some got one solid. But me and my buddies all got lifetime here
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Here is a picture of the accused teacher Lisa Glide, taken from the APP. You certainly can't blame the 17 year old with his hormones a ragin'.

Full article here: Authorities: Teacher from Howell had sex with student | APP.com | Asbury Park Press

I'm sorry, but if I'm that 15 year old I'm on my knees, hands clasped tight in gleeful prayer, tears of absolute joy flowing like two waterfalls from my eyes, thanking and praising the good lord above. I would've cared less if it was about her control, if it was about her looking for instant gratification, at 15 or 16 or 17 whatever her motives were would've been a-okay by me.

I mean look at her. It ain't like when this 44 year old woman was charged with having sex with a 13 year old.





There couldn't have been too much high fiving in the school yard over that one. This Lisa Gilde was probably front and center in many a school boy fantasy as she is one attractive woman. Had that been me at that age, I would've been praying for a next time. Was it wrong? Morally, yes. Still, I can't fathom any boy his age being scarred over that or regretting doing it. It's beyond my scope.
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Old 12-05-2008, 06:17 PM
 
Location: southern california
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interesting post read the link. out of 40, 14 were women teachers much more than what i would think. the stereotype is a white guy. it has gotten so bad at our local charter school there are threats of closing it down.
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Old 12-05-2008, 06:22 PM
 
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I'm sorry, but if I'm that 15 year old I'm on my knees, hands clasped tight in gleeful prayer, tears of absolute joy flowing like two waterfalls from my eyes, thanking and praising the good lord above. I would've cared less if it was about her control, if it was about her looking for instant gratification, at 15 or 16 or 17 whatever her motives were would've been a-okay by me.

I mean look at her. It ain't like when this 44 year old woman was charged with having sex with a 13 year old.





There couldn't have been too much high fiving in the school yard over that one. This Lisa Gilde was probably front and center in many a school boy fantasy as she is one attractive woman. Had that been me at that age, I would've been praying for a next time. Was it wrong? Morally, yes. Still, I can't fathom any boy his age being scarred over that or regretting doing it. It's beyond my scope.

So, suppose the situation was reversed, and the teacher was an attractive man having sex with a teenage girl. The girl has no regrets, it's the fulfillment of a fantasy for her, no pregnancy occurs, she's grateful she had the opportunity to be with an older attractive man. Would you feel the same way?

I'm sorry, but the double standard disgusts me, especially as a male educator myself. Any teacher, regardless of gender, who engages in sexual relations with students should be locked up and lose his/her license, PERIOD. If you can't control yourself as an adult, no matter how difficult it may be, you don't belong in this profession.
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