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Old 12-11-2008, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Randolph, NJ
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Old 12-11-2008, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Savannah GA/Lk Hopatcong NJ
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You've never heard of a "Lep rican" ?
OMG..you're killing me....hey if kids ever produce me a grand baby that's what it would be lol
 
Old 12-11-2008, 12:32 PM
 
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What? Who me push morse ova da edge? I would never do such a thing to my crack ho pal!
your quote about living off the system was funny!!! Thanks for calling me your crack ho pal!!!
 
Old 12-11-2008, 01:00 PM
 
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It's people like them that make me want to explode. Using my money to sponge off of. Boils my blood knowing they are perfectly capable of working and actually supporting themselves.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 01:02 PM
 
Location: NJ
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i have a 19 year old daughter who is moving out with her boyfreind,so i will have an extra bedroom that i plan on making into an office.(of course i will leave the bed for when she comes home to mommy)so anyway she made the mistake of telling my sister who is a huge loafer. she tries to get anything for free, she called me begging to move in with me.with her 2 dogs!!!!!she's been unemployed for over a year now. it just drives me crazy.get a job damn it. she and a friend split rent on an apt.but i think she's getting kicked out she does'nt pay her share. it just makes me laugh. i dont want anybody moving in with me and my husband and 11 year old.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 01:09 PM
 
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It's people like them that make me want to explode. Using my money to sponge off of. Boils my blood knowing they are perfectly capable of working and actually supporting themselves.
This is a big bunch of loafers and yes many in that house are capable of some kind of work, but none do. This is an actual situation and they have no intension of getting a job.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 01:46 PM
 
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This is a big bunch of loafers and yes many in that house are capable of some kind of work, but none do. This is an actual situation and they have no intension of getting a job.
Time to rat em out. Or at least threaten to if they dont hand over half their food stamps.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 01:59 PM
 
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OK OK OK - I have to get a word in before it is closed finally (and thanks for the comic relief, btw...)

I DO NOT approve of bilking the system. I DO NOT like people who are ABLE to work not working and living off the government. I AM ALL FOR personal responsibility and taking care of yourself and your family.

With that said................

It really amazes me that people get SO angry at people like this. Personally, I pity them more than anything. Why? Because no matter what most people think, they are not living well. They live like s**t in bad areas, their kids go to bad schools, they get bad medical treatment, etc. I know what you are saying, well, if they are not working why get any services at all. IF they are able bodied and don't work... well, I agree. But first, I don't know ANYONE'S situation well enough to cast that judgment on them. Do they have a mental disability we don't know about? It is possible. Or a physical ailment even, they are not all "visible" to the human eye. So without KNOWING the situation, it's pretty ballsy of me or anyone else to "assume" I know.

Next - are you jealous? Are you jealous because you choose to get up and go to work everyday to make a better life for you and your family? I'm not jealous. I would not want to live like that in a million years. I would DIE before I'd allow my children to live like that. I want better for myself and my family and will do whatever it takes to make it better for them, so I'm not going to be envious of people who live in this situation. I'm going to thank God that I do not have to.

Oh, but they are living off of "our" dime. Of course, it is taxpayer money that is supporting social welfare programs. I'm not denying that. But honestly, I get more pissed off by the rich SOB's and corporations that take more out of my pocket than a welfare family ever could. And PLEASE don't tell me that they don't - they do. They know every loophole, every way to evade taxes, etc. etc. Let's not even talk about bailouts here.... let me be irresponsible, downright criminal, live LARGE in the process, destroy countless lives, practically my entire country, if not the GLOBAL economy and then cry poverty. PLEASE. THEY make me sick. I know they make a lot of you sick too... but not as sick as this family in Lodi.

Think about it.....

And don't even get me on how much of your $ is going to corruption.... THAT concerns me a lot more.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 02:12 PM
 
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OK OK OK - I have to get a word in before it is closed finally (and thanks for the comic relief, btw...)

I DO NOT approve of bilking the system. I DO NOT like people who are ABLE to work not working and living off the government. I AM ALL FOR personal responsibility and taking care of yourself and your family.

With that said................

It really amazes me that people get SO angry at people like this. Personally, I pity them more than anything. Why? Because no matter what most people think, they are not living well. They live like s**t in bad areas, their kids go to bad schools, they get bad medical treatment, etc. I know what you are saying, well, if they are not working why get any services at all. IF they are able bodied and don't work... well, I agree. But first, I don't know ANYONE'S situation well enough to cast that judgment on them. Do they have a mental disability we don't know about? It is possible. Or a physical ailment even, they are not all "visible" to the human eye. So without KNOWING the situation, it's pretty ballsy of me or anyone else to "assume" I know.

Next - are you jealous? Are you jealous because you choose to get up and go to work everyday to make a better life for you and your family? I'm not jealous. I would not want to live like that in a million years. I would DIE before I'd allow my children to live like that. I want better for myself and my family and will do whatever it takes to make it better for them, so I'm not going to be envious of people who live in this situation. I'm going to thank God that I do not have to.

Oh, but they are living off of "our" dime. Of course, it is taxpayer money that is supporting social welfare programs. I'm not denying that. But honestly, I get more pissed off by the rich SOB's and corporations that take more out of my pocket than a welfare family ever could. And PLEASE don't tell me that they don't - they do. They know every loophole, every way to evade taxes, etc. etc. Let's not even talk about bailouts here.... let me be irresponsible, downright criminal, live LARGE in the process, destroy countless lives, practically my entire country, if not the GLOBAL economy and then cry poverty. PLEASE. THEY make me sick. I know they make a lot of you sick too... but not as sick as this family in Lodi.

Think about it.....

And don't even get me on how much of your $ is going to corruption.... THAT concerns me a lot more.
well they lived in a nice house before this on our money in Saddle Brook, it was a dead end and a nice place. They destroyed the place so the landlord thru them out, now the place in lodi is not great but by no means a dump. Its the house right next to Lodi Bowling alley on Terhune Ave, so its not the best but I could put welfare people in much worse houses. They have no disabilities mental or physical , the girl I know is an ex drug dealer. She is trying to stop dealing drugs and live off the system but not crack money which is a big step considering that whole family was from Paterson and dealing drugs. So she has made some improvements if you can say that. I dont know why the lack of motivation however I do know that the free ride seems like its never going to end and its hard to convince people not to deal drugs if the welfare check does not cover enough. My responsibility is to try to keep them out of the hood per say. Not an easy task because the money was tempting. However she is trying to resist the old drug dealing gang. Funny she never did drugs, the whole house is sober, they just dealt drugs.
 
Old 12-11-2008, 03:36 PM
 
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