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A gay bar is best bet. Cage in Hoboken maybe. Star Bar in Downtown JC. I don't know of too many gay bars, probably because I'm not gay...
...not that there's anything wrong with that.
Ha ha...ah yes, can anyone ever forget that famous line from Seinfeld?
The others are correct. Gay and bi guys don't wear signs saying "Hey I'm into dudes." So if you're looking for guys who also like guys, your best bet is a gay bar. Here's a list of ones I know, there may be others I'm unaware of:
Hoboken - the Cage
Jersey City - Star Bar
River Edge - Feathers
Boonton - Switch
Somerset - The Den
Asbury Park - there are a bunch of 'em.
New York & Philly - hundreds of them
Some of them are loud and crowded on weekends, but if you want a "chill" atmosphere, go on a weeknight. And if you have a buddy to take with you, that makes it easier.
Otherwise try some personals/dating websites. Match.com, gay.com, etc. Also, check your local area for a GLBT resource center. They can tell you about things going on in your area. They also usually provide services for teenagers who are dealing w/ identity issues or have been kicked out of home, support for people who "come out" late in life, and a number of clubs or events. For example, there's a GLBT adventure club, a GLBT bicycling club, and a GLBT softball league in the city. Great ways to meet people who are gay, bi, trans, and straight "allies." Good luck.
I used to know that scene pretty well, but do not anymore (as I have been out of the dating market for a long while, and my husband is 100% straight, despite the pictures you might find on his facebook account ). In all seriousness, when I was in college, a large percentage of my friends were either gay or bi, including my ex boyfriend. My ex is married and moved to new england, and anyone else I knew that was formerly in that scene have also moved onto other areas of the country/world.
Online might not be a bad place to go, and also like other said, joining some of those common interest groups might not be a bad way to go either. JGood luck!
yes just go to atlantic city and you will find plenty of bi dudes its like soo awsome!and truthfully since your my friend im like 20 years old just to let ya know!
Have a hotel sign for you when you find two of 'em Hehehe
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). In all seriousness, when I was in college, a large percentage of my friends were either gay or bi, including my ex boyfriend. My ex is married and moved to new england, and anyone else I knew that was formerly in that scene have also moved onto other areas of the country/world.
Roflmao!!!
