We had a pool when we lived in California and I miss it/and DO NOT miss having one if that makes any sense.
You never see above ground pools in California. (Well, I never did).
I ALWAYS wanted an inground pool and we bought our house based on that.
We lived there 4 years and we used it some of the time but not often enough. It was great when we had people visit but the $$$$ was insane and it was just not worth it.
When we first moved here (wow...almost a yr. now), we specifically said we would NOT look at homes with pools. We learned! Just my 2c.
Shanny