We live in Somerset County. I have an exceptional child. Currently in due process against board of education ... son out of school since November 2005. We go to court (AGAIN) tomorrow. The experience has been overwhelming, expensive and disheartening.
Having said all of that, I've heard very good things about Somerset (in Somerset County) and their special education services. I've heard that they are eager to work with parents, to work out what's best for the child. They must have considerably more funding than where we live.
Also, after confiding in someone that I could not afford to send my two boys to summer camp (they've both been coming to work with me), she informed me that Somerset had a program especially for single parents, and the camp program was $200 for the entire summer. My mouth dropped wide open. The Bridgewater/Somerville YMCA wanted $285/week/child, for 9 AM to 3 PM, no meals or snacks included!
Another thing ... for all the bad press Abbott districts get, that's where the money is. They are actually more accomodating (overall) when it comes to meeting the needs of children whom require special education services.
A website of interest to you might be
http://www.asah.org/ Go to the directory.
Hope something in my reply is helpful.
Good luck on your move.
SL