slow day, here's an example that demonstrate a good agent vs an average agent
An average agent:
Buyer -> agent: I offer 350k
agent -> seller: buyer is offering 350k
seller -> agent: no i want 360k
agent-> buyer: no seller wants 360k
buyer-> agent: no i am staying at 350k
agent->seller: no it wont work
A good agent:
Buyer -> agent: I offer 350k
agent -> seller: buyer is offering 350k, he's very serious rdy to close blabla..(establish buyer credential instead of some anon offer)
seller -> agent: no i want 360k
agent-> seller: i dont think that's going to work but i will try my best (set seller expectation)
agent-> buyer: seller wants 360k
buyer-> agent: no i am staying at 350k
agent->seller: how about this i will take $2000 less commission, you meet half way lower your asking by $4000, and throw in the furniture etc..
agent->buyer: 354k + furniture
DEAL!
i mean this is just an example there are many ways to skin a cat, sounds simple right? but unfortunately i can count on single hand the number of agents who are actually CLOSERS and i have dealt with many agents. Most are nothing but serving as a telephone between the buyer and seller, fetching #s back and forth. Many times i wish i could just spoke to the seller directly (not to cut out the agent's commission) but i know i can do a so much better job of making the deal with seller than the agent.
If you find a good agent, stick with him/her. Otherwise just go with whatever is the listing agent for the property so they get the full commission. Buyer vs seller agent has little meaning. In NJ, your attorney will be the one that look out for you, not the agent.