interracial dating question (Jay, Jordan: 2014, high school, safe)
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Frankly, I am amazed that this thread has generated so much discussion. We are in 2013 and it's about time we take interracial relationships for granted.
Kerry Washington is gorgeous and I'd say the the type of black woman most white men would probably find attractive. I read this blog post titled "The Types of Black Women Hot White Guys Date" or some title like that. It basically amounted to black women that are thin and look either like models or have "cutie pie" faces. Hair texture or skin color was not a preference meaning hot white guys would be with a very dark skin black woman with an Afro-assuming she has the face and figure of a model. Needless to say, her post was hotly debated! I have a friend that's like jet black (no joke) and has what I'd call a cutie face- round with pouty lips. She's also short and fit. Anyway lots of black guys don't give her the time of day because she's "too dark" but boy do those white guys like her! Especially the foreign ones.
I'd say in NYC, the above is more or less true. White guys with black women don't care about hair texture or skin shade. This is in contrast to the "traditional" standard of black beauty which is light skin and long straightened "good" hair. Also, more often than not the black women with white guys are no where near over weight. Not to say if a black woman is over weight she can't find a white man, it's just that most of those interracial couples I see, the black woman is well within a normal BMI. On the other foot, you'll see a large amount of overweight black women with fit and decent looking black men.
Quite frankly, you see women who are over weight of all races with fit decent looking men throughout the city. I have to say this, if your big girl in America and trouble with men who are shallow in the suburbs, if you want a man, move to NYC! Ran into a few fat women who are not native to NYC and love it due to amazing and easy dating choices.
I ran into a black woman like that at the Highline last year, she looked like a Sudanese type. I approached her and had a decent flowing conversation with her. Before you know it her white beardo, lumberjack boyfriend showed up out of nowhere from the bushes like an African Lion! But you are right, white guys do not care about a womans physical features. In matter of fact I have seen some white guys with overweight black women, thick in the right places, but again that is rarity.
Some guys take anything with some sort of skirt and little lipstick. I remember back in HS when a classmate was caught with a german adult magazine called Grosses Madchen which means fat girls. At a young age he was already into big women.
Quite frankly, you see women who are over weight of all races with fit decent looking men throughout the city. I have to say this, if your big girl in America and trouble with men who are shallow in the suburbs, if you want a man, move to NYC! Ran into a few fat women who are not native to NYC and love it due to amazing and easy dating choices.
That seems like horrible advice. NYC women outnumber NYC men at practically every age.
I went on craigslist and I was thoroughly disgusted. Those men just want sex.
OMG! A man wanting sex!
Sometimes you'll find a few gems among the freaks who are looking for serious relationship and not just a roll in the hay. I've seen a few Christian men looking for serious relationships that would lead to marriage.
Unfortunately, I'd say this is accurate. It's not like it's 50% black women in attendance but the black women at these things outnumber black guys, by a lot.
Women on the whole tend to outnumber men at these types of events. Remember also that many of the men who you see there were dragged in by their wives/girl friends.
On cl if you browse Brooklyn w4m you see plenty of AA and Caribbean American women asking for white men only.
You're right.
I remember not too long ago an AA young man questioning why so many Black women were looking for White men? After he'd complained he said he understood they had more money and more apt to wine and dine you. He went on to say he had dreams of being a rapper and would soon be able to afford the same if not more and how he was currently in school
...getting his GED! Lol
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