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Old 07-07-2015, 01:42 PM
 
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White guys do not love/prefer light skin black women. Trust me on this one. If they prefer light skin (or long straight hair for that matter) they would just be with a tanned white woman.
I'm a guy and I concur. Whenever I've seen white guys with black women, the women tend to be very dark and have natural hair.
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Old 07-07-2015, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Bronx
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I'm a guy and I concur. Whenever I've seen white guys with black women, the women tend to be very dark and have natural hair.
Some. I see these same type of relationships mainly in hip areas of Brooklyn, union square and below, and in Harlem.
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Old 07-07-2015, 02:15 PM
 
Location: NJ & NV
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It's illegal, dagnabbit, illegal to do that most anywhere and everywhere especially in the so called United States of Merica. Save yourself.
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Old 07-07-2015, 02:44 PM
 
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So how do you explain the increase in white male/ black female couples that I have seen in New York City?
I think you've misunderstood my comment. Skin tone is not a concern with white men when they date black women. Historically, black standards of beauty (specifically talking about it within the black community) lean towards "light skin and long hair". White guys that date black women don't really go by that standard. They will gladly date a super dark "Sudanese model-type" and be mesmerized by her complexion and find it beautiful. Point being, they like the dark skin tones of black women. Not saying that they don't or won't like light skin women too, they just aren't fixated with it as the standard for black beauty.
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Old 07-07-2015, 04:39 PM
 
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It's illegal, dagnabbit, illegal to do that most anywhere and everywhere especially in the so called United States of Merica. Save yourself.
I gave you rep for using the word "dagnabbit".
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Old 07-07-2015, 06:35 PM
 
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I think you've misunderstood my comment. Skin tone is not a concern with white men when they date black women. Historically, black standards of beauty (specifically talking about it within the black community) lean towards "light skin and long hair". White guys that date black women don't really go by that standard. They will gladly date a super dark "Sudanese model-type" and be mesmerized by her complexion and find it beautiful. Point being, they like the dark skin tones of black women. Not saying that they don't or won't like light skin women too, they just aren't fixated with it as the standard for black beauty.
I have to agree. Also, a quick youtube search shows the following:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46xhFCXBMJs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_VNYlrA3njA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPIAn3cwUmE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLskOqj2H44


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdGiQX609wQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-OaSfshNVY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HhdjtPzTv9c


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Abkhv1WroRA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dN9hDiqMjy4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y97vpRellY0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIf1abyhvXo


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nNxFR5wMN8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zyuM8FlPw8w


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-UpXCUqubQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gop_eRI35ao


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3jEenN6bp8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66oSUDN9sBY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_UJLEpeGAV0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnLW-bzgxf0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-uRwuq62MI

and on and on and on...
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Old 07-07-2015, 06:44 PM
 
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Maybe hang out in Montreal more. My (black) wife and I honeymooned there and we were amazed by all the BWWM couples we saw in the streets.
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Old 07-07-2015, 07:06 PM
 
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I would say just to approach White guys in general, you dont need to be aggressive at all just a friendly approach. White men are programmed to think that Black Women find them unattractive and lame.
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Old 07-07-2015, 08:51 PM
 
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Hello,

I joined to ask the NYC forum about the best places to date interracially?? I just turned 32, but I'm routinely told that I look 22. It must be my dark skin and healthy lifestyle that keeps me looking so young.

I see a lot of black guys out with non black women, and I too want to experience interracial dating. My preference is white men. I am shy and I don't really feel comfortable approaching guys. I'm just curious, where do black women who date interracially in the city meet their dates? Is it more likely in Brooklyn than in Manhattan.

Any suggestions?
Between 14th and 6th and 23rd and 7th - that is the official designated area of interracial dating
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Old 07-07-2015, 08:53 PM
 
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I would say just to approach White guys in general, you dont need to be aggressive at all just a friendly approach. White men are programmed to think that Black Women find them unattractive and lame.
yeah, we're "programmed" to think that black women find us unattractive. wtf are you talking about?
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