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Old 03-30-2017, 02:45 PM
 
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How many of us have had sex in the rest rooms of bars/clubs/restaurants/move theaters/subway seats/park benches/park grass/museums, etc it not about being gay its about what happens when two people need to have some action on the spot.


And those who haven't I suggest you give it a go. Stop judging others. Spice things up a bit.
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Old 03-30-2017, 03:31 PM
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Location: Coastal New Jersey
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Others in your shoes would have argued for closing down the Philadelphia Zoo.
And I coulda saved a lot of money and just taken them to the men's room at the PABT.
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Old 03-30-2017, 03:33 PM
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Location: Coastal New Jersey
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How many of us have had sex in the rest rooms of bars/clubs/restaurants/move theaters/subway seats/park benches/park grass/museums, etc it not about being gay its about what happens when two people need to have some action on the spot.
Museums...

Huh. Never thought of that.

Huh.
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Old 03-30-2017, 03:45 PM
 
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How many of us have had sex in the rest rooms of bars/clubs/restaurants/move theaters/subway seats/park benches/park grass/museums, etc it not about being gay its about what happens when two people need to have some action on the spot.
I've known both straight and gay people to have sex in parks, nightclubs, the woods, restaurants, churches, etc. I've had teachers tell me about teachers getting busted in the teachers lounge, or students (both straight and gay) getting caught in restrooms or other places. Of course people who have cars can just park their cars in quiet places, and of course people find spaces in apartment buildings away from cameras for sex and drugs.
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Old 03-30-2017, 04:36 PM
 
Location: Bergen County, NJ
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I think it's because bathrooms are a place for gays to pick up strangers for anonymous sex. It's not like a married gay couple would head to a Port Authority bathroom to have sex.
I guess if it was 1970 I'd get it, in 2017? No. All you need is a dating app and split the motel bill.
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Old 03-30-2017, 09:18 PM
 
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Of course people who have cars can just park their cars in quiet places
There was one couple who used to have oral sex in my office parking lot. Don't know if they realized anyone who happened to look out the third floor window could see them just fine.

I bet the car was much less nasty than the bus terminal bathroom though.
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Old 03-31-2017, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Manhattan
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There was one couple who used to have oral sex in my office parking lot. Don't know if they realized anyone who happened to look out the third floor window could see them just fine.

I bet the car was much less nasty than the bus terminal bathroom though.

No way. Sex in a bathroom stall is FAR less nasty than backbreaking sex in a car. Besides, sex in a car is a rite of passage for straight couples. If some prude sees two guys having sex in a car you'd get the same old prattle about "What if a 10 year old saw you?"


A single word describes the difference: HOMOPHOBIA.
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Old 03-31-2017, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Lake Grove
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Gross that people want to have sex in a public bathroom
Gross is an understatement!! Just having to use a public bathroom is bad enough.
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Old 03-31-2017, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Lake Grove
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Sex in a car in broad daylight in an area where kids could walk past is just as inappropriate for straight couples as it is for gay couples. I can't say I never fantasized about it, though. As the thinking animals, humans must employ thought and find a more appropriate place. If you need the thrill of getting caught, do it near some old ladies where you can at least laugh at their reaction!
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Old 03-31-2017, 09:48 AM
 
Location: East of the Sun, West of the Moon
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Outdoor sex (or out of the home, if you will) is one thing, but the fetish for having your sex be witnessed by non-consensual, random passersby it what is at issue.

If you get caught inflagrante delicto in the park it is one thing, but ****ing in the aisle of a busy bodega or the back of a bus is quite another.

I would not be mortally offended, and I don't think it would be the end of a child's innocence, but it is rude at best and pathologically immature at worst to intentionally have sex in an area where you know people who don't care to see your sweaty arse will see it..
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