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Old 03-31-2017, 10:05 AM
 
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Outdoor sex (or out of the home, if you will) is one thing, but the fetish for having your sex be witnessed by non-consensual, random passersby it what is at issue.

If you get caught inflagrante delicto in the park it is one thing, but ****ing in the aisle of a busy bodega or the back of a bus is quite another.

I would not be mortally offended, and I don't think it would be the end of a child's innocence, but it is rude at best and pathologically immature at worst to intentionally have sex in an area where you know people who don't care to see your sweaty arse will see it..

I don't care to see it, either. I have a right not to see it.


I once had some dude show me a Polaroid of his damn junk in the pub. restroom in Wash. Sq. Pk.


Yuck.
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Old 03-31-2017, 10:09 AM
 
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How many of us have had sex in the rest rooms of bars/clubs/restaurants/move theaters/subway seats/park benches/park grass/museums, etc it not about being gay its about what happens when two people need to have some action on the spot.
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Museums...

Huh. Never thought of that.

Huh.

Not with the hordes of school children in the bathroom- all that noise would be a mood killer.

And if you are having sex in public, are you not worried in this day and age about being filmed and your 'activities' put on the internet?

And why would these men use a urinal instead of a stall to masturbate? It seems to me that a man staring at another man at a urinal for whatever reason might lead to punches being thrown.
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Old 03-31-2017, 11:10 AM
 
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Not with the hordes of school children in the bathroom- all that noise would be a mood killer.

And if you are having sex in public, are you not worried in this day and age about being filmed and your 'activities' put on the internet?

And why would these men use a urinal instead of a stall to masturbate? It seems to me that a man staring at another man at a urinal for whatever reason might lead to punches being thrown.

The Basketball Diaries by Jim Carroll has a vivid description of all the pervos yanking it in the men's room at GC Station.


Again, yuck.


I just googled him. He died 8 years ago, of a heart attack. He was only 60. He looked 80.

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Old 03-31-2017, 11:14 AM
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Not with the hordes of school children in the bathroom- all that noise would be a mood killer.

And if you are having sex in public, are you not worried in this day and age about being filmed and your 'activities' put on the internet?

And why would these men use a urinal instead of a stall to masturbate? It seems to me that a man staring at another man at a urinal for whatever reason might lead to punches being thrown.
If this is similar to what has happened at other public facilities in the past, that's what I'm thinking it's really all about. It's not that two guys are getting it on in a stall. It's that they get on line for the urinals, but they are really just checking out all the other men in there using the urinals. Notice that the thread title says "masturbating".

My now-ex used the public men's room in the old WTC once (down in the PATH well), and he said they would keep getting on line for the urinals then go back to the end of the line once they got up front, and then a PA cop came in and started yelling, "OK, OK, time to leave, you're going to burn holes in the walls with your eyes" and cleared them out. He laughed, but surely some people are going to get annoyed and if not throw punches, complain.
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Old 03-31-2017, 11:14 AM
 
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One word of advice to you "normal" folks: "get-used-to-the-weirdos"

because they have every right to do what their urge leads them to...

you would be lucky if in 10 years from now that you don't need to wait in line to use the busily occupied bathrooms because some weirdo couples are having a righteous thrilling time over one another in front of the urinal or on the stall behind a closed door while you have to hold back what you are urged to let out...
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Old 03-31-2017, 06:48 PM
 
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[quote=Mightyqueen801;47695468]If this is similar to what has happened at other public facilities in the past, that's what I'm thinking it's really all about. It's not that two guys are getting it on in a stall. It's that they get on line for the urinals, but they are really just checking out all the other men in there using the urinals. Notice that the thread title says "masturbating".

My now-ex used the public men's room in the old WTC once (down in the PATH well), and he said they would keep getting on line for the urinals then go back to the end of the line once they got up front, and then a PA cop came in and started yelling, "OK, OK, time to leave, you're going to burn holes in the walls with your eyes" and cleared them out. He laughed, but surely some people are going to get annoyed and if not throw punches, complain.[/QUOTE]

I think that's all they need is security to scare people off who do that. The problem with arresting them is if you do that, you need solid proof that convicts them of indecent exposure, or else the cop and the city or Port Authority is left open to being SUED themselves.

Obviously if people can't use the bathroom because people are occupying stalls or checking people out in the urinals, there's an issue, but it's nothing that security can't deal with by chasing them out just like that Port Authority cop did.
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Old 03-31-2017, 06:51 PM
 
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The Basketball Diaries by Jim Carroll has a vivid description of all the pervos yanking it in the men's room at GC Station.


Again, yuck.


I just googled him. He died 8 years ago, of a heart attack. He was only 60. He looked 80.
Craziest story I heard about an old man yanking it. I walked by a porn store and there was an ambulance there . After asking the employees what happened, they had these booths that men would go in and view porn and each other jerking off. An old man was doing all that and gave himself a HEART attack and died. He was having safe sex (just masturbation) and he still died from the excitement!
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Old 03-31-2017, 08:09 PM
 
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Craziest story I heard about an old man yanking it. I walked by a porn store and there was an ambulance there . After asking the employees what happened, they had these booths that men would go in and view porn and each other jerking off. An old man was doing all that and gave himself a HEART attack and died. He was having safe sex (just masturbation) and he still died from the excitement!
He died doing what he loved with the one he loved. May we all do so well.
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Old 04-01-2017, 01:53 AM
 
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sex in bathrooms is reserved for night clubs, if you must
LOL! Are people too cheap for the Days Inn???
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Old 04-01-2017, 11:14 AM
 
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I repeat: Is a STALL in a restroom a public or a private place?
If you can **** in it or **** in it, there is an implication of private. If private you should be able to jerk off in it, or suck a dick through a glory hole in it.
If it is a public place, then you should be allowed to take a **** on Fifth Avenue, another public place.
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