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The bar certainly is high in NYC. Ive noticed women behave differently in each neighborhood. Like in Greenwich Village they are out and about having fun, smiling and being cheerful. But I live at 170th Street in Washington Heights and its a different story here, especially with young white girls in the Heights they are heavily closed off. No smiling. Cold. Everyone get away from me Im scared, vibes.
I believe my issue is almost entirely that Im unsure where to meet women. I see the finer ones in restaurants in the village, drinking with girlfriends and on dates but it looks expensive. Im Hawaiian and most of my family is allergic to alcohol. So where are cool cafes? Its like I just do not have any hangouts yet. Any pointers?
For the most part Im not into hispanic women in NYC. Unless they are super fine plus young and petite, Im thinking of all the junky tacos and dirty taco shops, and all the high fructose corn syrup, and just "hanging out" on the streets, with that lazy arrogance, I dunno folks, hispanic women are not my thing. But I have spent time in Colombia and its a different story down there, and in Miami
I do not get labeled with the creepy thing too much because I just avoid overweight women at all costs. I do mostly approach younger girls like 19-25 is my target range and it is mixed reactions. Surely a huge proportion are just looking for extracting resources from rich men. Theyre quick with identifying the money.
Another issue I run into is what we all experience. When it comes to dating we are just a messed up society that is lost and full of abusive psychos. We are all messed up and have forgotten how to treat eachother, yeah especially due to feminism and everything connected to that. Its normalized people being unfulfilled and unhappy and alone.
It is tough, but you might have some problems that you need to address in order to attract women. This week I'm going on a date with an Ivy leaguer woman. She is dying to get off of thr market, and all she wants is an educated man of an minority background who has his stuff together. She said she is not asking for much. I have to pass the chemistry test with this woman first. But all I want to do is do a home run on the first date. No wonder career driven women are having a tough time in this city.
I think you need to work on yourself and stop looking for love. Don't come across sounding like a bitter @sswhole to your date probably isn't the best way to score.
I feel like you making dating 100 times harder than it needs to be.
If you get approached by about 20-30 men a day you might not be as perceptive. If someone approaches me when I'm on the street 9 times out of 10 I will be instantly irritated unless they are insanely attractive or something.
If I'm approached in the gym, at the bar, or some kind of event I almost always will take time to engage in a conversation.
Plus, a lot of guys are creepy. I've been followed home countless times. Just yesterday I was walking home and a guy tried to talk to me. When I didn't respond to him he had his two large pitbulls surround me and gave me the scariest lecture on why I shouldn't ignore people. WTF there really are a lot of crazy men in the city.
You speak to everyone that approaches you in the city. Honestly, the fact that men assume that they can just walk up to anyone on the street and demand a response is extremely entitled. Probably one of the reason NY women are so nasty. I really only get that in NY when I'm in other places the men are much more respectful.
No one owes you anything at all.
You speak to everyone that approaches you in the city. Honestly, the fact that men assume that they can just walk up to anyone on the street and demand a response is extremely entitled. Probably one of the reason NY women are so nasty. I really only get that in NY when I'm in other places the men are much more respectful.
No one owes you anything at all.
Just letting you know that I was joking with you. Don't take harmful Ms. Thang!
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