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Most "nice" women, i.e., the ones who are interested in getting to know you and a possible relationship, generally think that men who approach them on the street are only looking for sex. That's why most self-respecting women don't respond to men on the street.
I see someone just discovered the nature of men. Just starting college in New York City, eh? Well, pretty girls - 'that's what you are, live with it - catch the attention of men of all ages. You have several choices:
1. Wear a burka.
2. Ignore it. If the "creep" persists, chances are he is dangerous, call a cop.
3. Why are you in that bar? Why are you dressed like "that" - yeah, you can dress any way you want but the game has a price, lady. If you want to avoid the obvious attention, have your husband/boyfriend on your arm and make sure he's good-looking and physically intimidating enough to ward off the competition. A gay friend won't do it, either, unless you're into gay bars.
4. Have a child with you. That is the biggest turn-off to a wolf.
5. Own and walk a large dog. Of course, the dog walks are great places to hook-up...
6. Make it clear that if a man doesn't smell like $200 k/year, he's not in your league (a real killer of lechers).
7. Do things to make yourself ugly. don't be athletic. Eat stuff that's bad for you. then again, there are plenty of men who will pursue anything and anyone.
8. If you wear low-cut t-shirts and such, don't shave your underarm hair.
9. Do not wear a thong. Real men LIKE to look at them as they show through a tight pair of pants. That's the way it is, ladies, they're not marketed to you for your health, you know. Same goes for any underwear under light-colored clothing. Oh, and if you go "commando" - and it shows, we guys might think you're, um, a "ho."
That being said, since my ego was annihilated many, many moons ago by a combo of #3 and #6 above, I keep my distance. SO DON'T FLAME ME FOR BEING HONEST.
End note: guys, avoid leering at the gym. The girls won't come back; make strategic use of the mirrors.
Last edited by Otis_Nevins; 07-26-2008 at 11:55 AM..
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I see someone just discovered the nature of men. Just starting college in New York City, eh? Well, pretty girls - 'that's what you are, live with it - catch the attention of men of all ages. You have several choices:
1. Wear a burka.
2. Ignore it. If the "creep" persists, chances are he is dangerous, call a cop.
3. Why are you in that bar? Why are you dressed like "that" - yeah, you can dress any way you want but the game has a price, lady. If you want to avoid the obvious attention, have your husband/boyfriend on your arm and make sure he's good-looking and physically intimidating enough to ward off the competition. A gay friend won't do it, either, unless you're into gay bars.
4. Have a child with you. That is the biggest turn-off to a wolf.
5. Own and walk a large dog. Of course, the dog walks are great places to hook-up...
6. Make it clear that if a man doesn't smell like $200 k/year, he's not in your league (a real killer of lechers).
7. Do things to make yourself ugly. don't be athletic. Eat stuff that's bad for you. then again, there are plenty of men who will pursue anything and anyone.
8. If you wear low-cut t-shirts and such, don't shave your underarm hair.
9. Do not wear a thong. Real men LIKE to look at them as they show through a tight pair of pants. That's the way it is, ladies, they're not marketed to you for your health, you know. Same goes for any underwear under light-colored clothing. Oh, and if you go "commando" - and it shows, we guys might think you're, um, a "ho."
That being said, since my ego was annihilated many, many moons ago by a combo of #3 and #6 above, I keep my distance. SO DON'T FLAME ME FOR BEING HONEST.
End note: guys, avoid leering at the gym. The girls won't come back; make strategic use of the mirrors.
I see someone just discovered the nature of men. Just starting college in New York City, eh? Well, pretty girls - 'that's what you are, live with it - catch the attention of men of all ages. You have several choices:
1. Wear a burka.
2. Ignore it. If the "creep" persists, chances are he is dangerous, call a cop.
3. Why are you in that bar? Why are you dressed like "that" - yeah, you can dress any way you want but the game has a price, lady. If you want to avoid the obvious attention, have your husband/boyfriend on your arm and make sure he's good-looking and physically intimidating enough to ward off the competition. A gay friend won't do it, either, unless you're into gay bars.
4. Have a child with you. That is the biggest turn-off to a wolf.
5. Own and walk a large dog. Of course, the dog walks are great places to hook-up...
6. Make it clear that if a man doesn't smell like $200 k/year, he's not in your league (a real killer of lechers).
7. Do things to make yourself ugly. don't be athletic. Eat stuff that's bad for you. then again, there are plenty of men who will pursue anything and anyone.
8. If you wear low-cut t-shirts and such, don't shave your underarm hair.
9. Do not wear a thong. Real men LIKE to look at them as they show through a tight pair of pants. That's the way it is, ladies, they're not marketed to you for your health, you know. Same goes for any underwear under light-colored clothing. Oh, and if you go "commando" - and it shows, we guys might think you're, um, a "ho."
That being said, since my ego was annihilated many, many moons ago by a combo of #3 and #6 above, I keep my distance. SO DON'T FLAME ME FOR BEING HONEST.
End note: guys, avoid leering at the gym. The girls won't come back; make strategic use of the mirrors.
lol......so your telling me if I get fat, dont shave, buy a large dog, find a meat head to tote around, I will no longer be hit on .......think I will just deal with being hit on...lol
I had no idea that men were so fragile. What's wrong with approaching a woman with, "Hi" or "Excuse me..." instead of "Shake it, don't break it baby!" or other crap lines.
If a man is only attracting golddiggers, there is something wrong with his approach. I have many single girlfriends with high-paying careers who happily date men who make less money. But many of the men haven't been able to handle it. Oops, I guess I did know about the weakness.
I had no idea that men were so fragile. What's wrong with approaching a woman with, "Hi" or "Excuse me..." instead of "Shake it, don't break it baby!" or other crap lines.
If a man is only attracting golddiggers, there is something wrong with his approach. I have many single girlfriends with high-paying careers who happily date men who make less money. But many of the men haven't been able to handle it. Oops, I guess I did know about the weakness.
men are givers. women are recievers. nature of the beast. We like to please you. Your happiness makes us happy. If ur makin the bread and I cant do sh-t for ya.......now what.
No matter how evolved advanced we are it all stems from natural primal instinct.
..on a side note...I wish I would get cat called by women. call me hot and whistle at me anyday. Put a smile on my face.lol..
p.s. whats with all arrogant shallow blond blue eyed women in this city..lol..
..on a side note...I wish I would get cat called by women. call me hot and whistle at me anyday. Put a smile on my face.lol..
I think you'd have a better grasp on why its an idiotic way to approach women if gay men called you hot and whistled at you. I'm sure that would make you feel all tingly inside. LOL.
I think you'd have a better grasp on why its an idiotic way to approach women if gay men called you hot and whistled at you. I'm sure that would make you feel all tingly inside. LOL.
lol....!! thats funny but not the same! not like shes getting lesbians hitting on her. i shake in my boots if that really happened though.
i had a gay manager a couple years back. we joked around sometimes. cool guy. But one day he said dont worry your not my type. for some reason i sat there and thought about it. i asked what the hell you mean im not your type. whats with wrong with me. whats makes you so special...lol.
lol....!! thats funny but not the same! not like shes getting lesbians hitting on her. i shake in my boots if that really happened though.
i had a gay manager a couple years back. we joked around sometimes. cool guy. But one day he said dont worry your not my type. for some reason i sat there and thought about it. i asked what the hell you mean im not your type. whats with wrong with me. whats makes you so special...lol.
what I meant is in Vegas platinum blonde hair/tan skin, kind of a 'socal' look is really popular and I hardly see anyone like this in NYC. The style here is totally different and maybe I stand out with my west coast style.
Are you assuming that this only happens to you???? I agree with everyone else. New Yorkers say what they are thinking. The last time I visited New York, the city workers were yelling out of their truck at me. I didn't get offended, just smiled and kept walking.
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