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I like making people happy when the situation happens to come to that, but it's not like I'm always going out of my way to do it. Maybe it's selfish, but my first priority is to make sure I'm happy. But you have to remember, not only am I single but I have been for a VERY long time, so besides my very small family, who would I make happy? I live alone, I dine alone, I shop alone, I do everything alone, so I'm rarely in a position to make an effort at other people's happiness.
Some people seem to be unhappy, no matter what I do for them, no matter what it is. Generally, though, I do like making certain other people happy... female friends, women I am interested in, family, a few friends, etc. Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy, sorta like playing with a dog or being praised for doing a good job or receiving a thoughtful gift for something. (lol!)
Don't get me wrong, though, I don't try to please everyone. I also don't mind helping people if/when they need it.
I just wish people would return the favor more often.
I used to. And I don't keep track of the things I do for people. However, when, even without keeping track, it becomes apparent that you are doing more for others than they are doing for you, the answer is a BIG NO.
It's often the small gestures that go a long way in making someone's day. Too often I get caught up in the daily grind, and sometimes I need to take a breather and do something spontaneous. I enjoy doing something thoughtful for a friend, family member, co-worker etc., that brings a smile to their face. To steal a phrase...sometimes kindness is its own reward.
This thread made me happy, thanks Dewdrop! Lol, I do like making people happy, and for me it's more of helping them not be unhappy. In the streets I always help people, carry strollers up stairs, open doors for people, help the elderly walk across icy streets... I think it's a shame that more people don't help others in need.
I like making people smile & laugh I think it make's one better to laugh as much as possible. On the other hand you have to make yourself happy as well. Sometimes they don't balance each other out.
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No, I don't believe you can really make others happy. But I do like to bring comfort to people and pamper them which is probably why I'm in the medical profession.
It's a simple question. Do you like making other people happy? It seems that many people on here are so hung up on what others are doing or not doing for them. People scream "entitlement" constantly! "She thinks she's entitled to a good looking guy who makes a lot of money and treats her well when really she should settle for me!" "He thinks he's entitled to a hot wife you dotes on him when really he should settle for me!" People fight about who puts how much effort into dating and romancing. People fight about which gender looks better or acts better or does more... But I look at my own life - and I feel soooooo lucky - and I realize that none of these things ever come up in my life. And I wonder if it's partly because I like making other people happy. I honestly do. It's not a chore. I don't bemoan the fact that I have to dress up for someone or cook for someone or take care of someone. I enjoy it. I like having my friends and neighbors over for dinner. I like throwing parties. I like taking care of my husband. I like taking care of my dog. I like taking care of my baby. I like making other people HAPPY! It makes me feel good!
So - do you like making other people happy?
Making others happy makes me happy like I donate money to the needy.
There is no entitlement. Everything has to be earned. Nothing is guaranteed. There are risks involved.
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