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Okay, so a friend of mine who I reunited with last year has been very distant with me as of late, after we had many great moments together. And its really over something quite silly.
So, to get to the point, she's upset because she thought I was her "instagram creep/troll" who posted comments on her instagram pictures saying pretty vulgar and obscene things. It came as a coincidence because I texted her an apology at the time she was trying to find out who posted such comments. When I was actually apologizing to her over another (not serious) matter. So her and her sister decided to post on my Facebook wall some rather immature and silly things.
At the end, we talked over the phone, cleared up the air and gained clarity. I told her it wasn't me and she believed me because well, IT WASN'T. I mentioned to her that it can be any other guys who actually wanted her romantically, never did and decided to scoop to some whole new low. Or it could be just someone that had it in for her. She does have history with some weirdo's who have electronically stalked her.
Since then, she's been really distant with me. She hardly ever text me or contact me period. I haven't been on her back and actually stopped texting her for a while. I did so recently and we texted back and fourth for a little bit. Now she has a birthday party coming up and I haven't been invited but prior to her birthday party (which he has been planning for some time) I was invited. I can't say I'm not bothered and its not so much that I didn't get an invite to the party but the fact that I'm sure she's holding the possibility that I was her instagram stalker and she's probably keeping me at a distance for a while.
I do want to talk to her about this and ask her if she's being distant with me because of this, which I am sure is the case. At the same time, I feel like asking her that might incite her suspicious because she's probably going to wonder why I'm bringing it up. I'm disappointed because I thought she had more trust in me and that our friendship was stronger than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not losing sleep over it and at the same time I should just let her think what she wants. I figure if she was a true friend, she would trust me.
What should I do? Should I text her and ask her or just let her come around when ever she's ready (when she's ready)
She may believe you now but be embarrassed or feel bad that she thought it was you. I mean, if you think about it, she believed you had it in you to do something like that. Not exactly giving you the benefit of the doubt, you know? And she was wrong. So she might be uncomfortable about it. Give her time.
Okay, so a friend of mine who I reunited with last year has been very distant with me as of late, after we had many great moments together. And its really over something quite silly.
So, to get to the point, she's upset because she thought I was her "instagram creep/troll" who posted comments on her instagram pictures saying pretty vulgar and obscene things. It came as a coincidence because I texted her an apology at the time she was trying to find out who posted such comments. When I was actually apologizing to her over another (not serious) matter. So her and her sister decided to post on my Facebook wall some rather immature and silly things.
At the end, we talked over the phone, cleared up the air and gained clarity. I told her it wasn't me and she believed me because well, IT WASN'T. I mentioned to her that it can be any other guys who actually wanted her romantically, never did and decided to scoop to some whole new low. Or it could be just someone that had it in for her. She does have history with some weirdo's who have electronically stalked her.
Since then, she's been really distant with me. She hardly ever text me or contact me period. I haven't been on her back and actually stopped texting her for a while. I did so recently and we texted back and fourth for a little bit. Now she has a birthday party coming up and I haven't been invited but prior to her birthday party (which he has been planning for some time) I was invited. I can't say I'm not bothered and its not so much that I didn't get an invite to the party but the fact that I'm sure she's holding the possibility that I was her instagram stalker and she's probably keeping me at a distance for a while.
I do want to talk to her about this and ask her if she's being distant with me because of this, which I am sure is the case. At the same time, I feel like asking her that might incite her suspicious because she's probably going to wonder why I'm bringing it up. I'm disappointed because I thought she had more trust in me and that our friendship was stronger than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not losing sleep over it and at the same time I should just let her think what she wants. I figure if she was a true friend, she would trust me.
What should I do? Should I text her and ask her or just let her come around when ever she's ready (when she's ready)
So, to get to the point, she's upset because she thought I was her "instagram creep/troll" who posted comments on her instagram pictures saying pretty vulgar and obscene things. It came as a coincidence because I texted her an apology at the time she was trying to find out who posted such comments. When I was actually apologizing to her over another (not serious) matter. So her and her sister decided to post on my Facebook wall some rather immature and silly things.
This makes no sense. You posted an apology to her describing some other thing you did wrong, and she assumed you were lying and were apologizing for something completely different that you never mentioned?
Sorry, how does that work? Do you have a reputation for being a liar and/or a creep? I can't imagine why she would jump to such a conclusion.
This makes no sense. You posted an apology to her describing some other thing you did wrong, and she assumed you were lying and were apologizing for something completely different that you never mentioned?
Sorry, how does that work? Do you have a reputation for being a liar and/or a creep? I can't imagine why she would jump to such a conclusion.
Well, it wasn't something I did wrong I was actually apologizing for not being able to do something for her. So for whatever reason SHE flew off the handle since she was already hyserical over this instagram scandal. So, that's on HER not me. And no, I don't have a reputation for being a liar and a creep. Quite the opposite actually.
Well, it wasn't something I did wrong I was actually apologizing for not being able to do something for her. So for whatever reason SHE flew off the handle since she was already hyserical over this instagram scandal. So, that's on HER not me. And no, I don't have a reputation for being a liar and a creep. Quite the opposite actually.
I don't have instagram.
Still makes no sense. When you asked why on earth she thought it was you, what did she say? Something about you makes her think it was...
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