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Old 02-01-2014, 01:07 PM
 
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I may be the odd man out here, but maybe after 7 months they thought you'd have gotten over it by now.

How were they "mean" to you anyway?
I tried but they were so mean to me it mad me still think about it. They were mean to me because they were rude to me had an attitude about everything. They would yell and get pissed when i made a little mistake
but some one else did they were no rude like that. Its like i felt like i was a no body around them they didnt even respect my boundary's when i demanded respect! i was like a joke..
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Old 02-01-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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They don't take meds and if they had a diagnoses they would never know because they would never go to a therapist because of their pride. They do drink beer and smoke weed.
Hmm.... beer n weed is all good, way better than crashing off SSRI's...So that's not it, Hmm...
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Old 02-01-2014, 01:09 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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3rd time - how do you define "mean"? What did they do, specifically?
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Old 02-01-2014, 01:17 PM
 
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3rd time - how do you define "mean"? What did they do, specifically?

My definition of mean is a person who is rude,yelling, disrespectful, hostile towards you especially if you are not such a way! especially if they Don't feel remorse!
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Old 02-01-2014, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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But why? What were you doing "wrong" in their eyes?
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Old 02-01-2014, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Georgia
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But why would they do that if i care about them? i thought we were like family ?
How often do you cut off communication with your family members for 7 months or more?

People often grow apart as they grow up - priorities change, lives and responsibilities change. It happens. *shrug*
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Old 02-01-2014, 02:23 PM
 
Location: The Greater Houston Metro Area
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I had an acquaintance that would turn hateful at the bat of an eye. After the 2nd outburst with me (and witnessing it directed at others a couple of times), I just refused to have anything to do with her. It's like being around a pot that could boil over at any time, for no reason. Life's too short to deal with people that have anger issues.
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Old 02-01-2014, 02:32 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I had an acquaintance that would turn hateful at the bat of an eye. After the 2nd outburst with me (and witnessing it directed at others a couple of times), I just refused to have anything to do with her. It's like being around a pot that could boil over at any time, for no reason. Life's too short to deal with people that have anger issues.
Mrs. Chow has an aunt like that, you never know what's gonna set her off, half the time I avoid any kind of charged subject around her. We've had her go off on us a few times, she's done it to Mrs. Chow's mom over the yrs too.

I told Mrs. Chow that when ever they come into town, they live out of state, that I'm gonna have plans or busy with other things, make up work excuses or prior engagements.

Screw that noise, life is short as you've said, I ain't wasting my weekends or off time with A holes......
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Old 02-01-2014, 02:36 PM
 
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But why? What were you doing "wrong" in their eyes?
Well in their eyes they act like i am not as so called smart as them so they feel like they are the ones who should take control of things. they act so hasty and aggressive
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Old 02-01-2014, 02:37 PM
 
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How often do you cut off communication with your family members for 7 months or more?

People often grow apart as they grow up - priorities change, lives and responsibilities change. It happens. *shrug*
The only reason why i cut of contact with this person that they were too aggressive and they were not remorseful.
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