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Old 07-02-2014, 01:02 PM
 
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The older male officer knew several people over here, including the office lady very well, which made me feel that he could have been trying to throw me off by making everything a joke--I guessed he may be in with them and a crooked officer.

The apartment lady was highly upset about me reporting the incident to the police first--saying it makes her and the apartment company look bad.

She did appear a little disoriented. I tried making it being she was up in age though she could possibly be a crackhead.
The drug dealer is probably supplying the landlord with drugs in return for her looking the other way while he "does business".
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Old 07-02-2014, 01:05 PM
 
Location: SC
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Sounds like all of these people need to get jobs (especially since the neighbor seems to be popping out kids like there is no tomorrow) and stop talking to each other.

In the meantime, keep a journal and a camera and document everything with pictures, times and dates, until you lease expires and you are out of there. You should have a new home lined up ahead of time with a move in date open as soon as you're out.

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Old 07-02-2014, 01:37 PM
 
Location: Caverns measureless to man...
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The only thing that puzzled me was: The man does seem to truly care about his kids, so that's the only thing that made me rethink him being a dealer. I was thinking a loving father wouldn't bring those kind of people around his kids, but who knows.
In an imaginary world, anything is possible.
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Old 07-02-2014, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Twin Cities
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In an imaginary world, anything is possible.
Exactly. I think it would be far more interesting if the OP would explain why he or she continues to make up all these outrageous stories under different screen names. Is there some kind of thrill associated with duping the other posters? Pure boredom? Please, OP, explain yourself. Some of us are curious about the real story here.
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Old 07-02-2014, 05:56 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I can't wait for a few more days to go by and have this thread devolve further, purely for entertainment purposes.

An unpleasant annoying neighbor has, courtesy of respondents, segued into a drug dealing, chemical warfare-spraying ghetto psychopath while the OP (who started off quite sanely and in control) has slowly degenerated into a weeping wreck and is now being accused of being an impostor who habitually, and under many different screen names, creates outrageous stories to fool the intelligentsia.

Oh the anticipation is too much!
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Old 07-02-2014, 06:13 PM
 
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I've been looking for a shelter for temporary stay to avoid conflict with my mother getting more pissed, etc. I should be out some time today. My mother can stay, but I'm getting out!

WOW, It's weird you wrote what you wrote as this is exactly what crossed my mind when the older lady kept making the neighbor out to be someone who does no wrong in her eyes. It just hit me that there's more than what meets the eye. She was too defensive. I mean, who puts a wasp sting which is totally avoidable by staying inside before dangerous chemicals that's getting another tenant extremely ill. Because if I get hospitalized, then not only does it come down to him and trouble but the apartment company for letting him do it.

The older male officer knew several people over here, including the office lady very well, which made me feel that he could have been trying to throw me off by making everything a joke--I guessed he may be in with them--a crooked officer.

She also mentioned her son was the one that notified her about the incident first. She didn't say what her son does, she just said he works with the police department. I was wondering how her son found out when he wasn't the one dispatched over here. Maybe all officers get the call, then pick who's going where.. don't know but that was strange to me.

The apartment lady was highly upset about me reporting the incident to the police first--saying it makes her and the apartment company look bad. They need to handle things there first before calling outside people (police). Again, I hope her crooked son or the other officer can't erase the records, because if I had went directly through her, she could have erased everything. Hoping I'm covered there.

She did appear a little disoriented. I tried making it being she was up in age though she could possibly be a crackhead.

The only thing that puzzled me was: The man does seem to truly care about his kids, so that's the only thing that made me rethink him being a dealer. I was thinking a loving father wouldn't bring those kind of people around his kids, but who knows.

Thanks all, again, I'm searching for a shelter right now so I can get myself out of here asap since my mother is being her normal, pushover self.


My advice would be to move out as soon as you can. Its not worth the risk. I had an incident where a neighbor made terroristic threats against me. I immediately went to the police and my landlord. My landlord wasn't too interested in hearing about it even though the tenant had caused problems in the past. The police officer who was familiar with the tenant and his history (drugs, mental health issues etc..) advised me to move out for my own safety. (You know its bad when the Police tells you to pack up and move!) I obtained a copy of the police report and gave my landlord a copy. I informed him what the officer had said and that I was moving and that's what I did.
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Old 07-02-2014, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Fresno, CA
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I'm sure this has been asked but why the heck have you not reported this to the apt. manager? Why has it taken all of this for you to actually call the cops?
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Old 07-02-2014, 07:31 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I'm sure this has been asked but why the heck have you not reported this to the apt. manager? Why has it taken all of this for you to actually call the cops?
Reading the thread will bring forth enlightenment.
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Old 07-02-2014, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Fresno, CA
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Reading the thread will bring forth enlightenment.
I'm not going to read 9 pages of bs to find out, sorry but I have better things to do.
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Old 07-02-2014, 08:55 PM
 
Location: oHIo
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i strongly disagree. He made a few mildly inappropriate comments but certainly not sufficient to warrant a dumb tattle-tale complaint to his superior which will only serve to make him very reluctant to be of any help in the future. When dealing with members of the force or anyone similarly in authority you very carefully pick your battles when necessary and slough off the insignificant.
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