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This is combine with my thread "Feel being ignored by a good friend!"
As she was ignoring me I kept silent. But she return a call, in short her accusation was " you are hiding information on face book from me, I cannot see your wall, I cannot comment on your photos, I see only 'ASK" button in front of your information" she was yelling crying mad all in once. So I calmly said " There is nothing I have filled out there, you know everything of me, She said I am busy and hang the phone.
I am quiet not sure if this is the reason for her to behave like this but 3 months ago She asked me what I am thinking She go on vacations with her boy friend who she got to know? She know this guy for more than 2 years and every time her daughter goes to her daddy my friend heading some where on a vacation, where are the best spots Hawaii once , Bahamas once, Bali once, and many more places every other two or three months.
she asked my view so I told her:If I were you I will try to see how he is moving on real daily life with me. How he is coping with daily routine, what sort of support I get, , it always stunning and as we both relaxed nothing can go wrong during the vacations, but daily life is hectic, it is different as you are a single mom and also working mother. SO I will try to see that side too
Her answer for that was " my life has nothing to do with any one else" honestly I don't know what is the relevancy with this phrase for what I said. I did not asked her either what is that mean or why she said that as she was in the air port heading for her boy friend for next vacation.
I open the conversation with asking did I say something wrong? for that she accuse me for using face book as I feel, but as I can see this might be the case. But I don't feel like I have said something to hurt her I said the reality for god sake. And I cannot lie in the sake of friendship either.
Should I apologize her for my given view if that is the reason?. If I am wrong I am ready to do that but is is really my fault or her rude behavior? After I realize this might be the case I have called her on skype when I saw her online she did not respond. And house phone does not answer either. Should I may be send a apologizing letter ? Is it really necessary?