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Old 05-09-2015, 05:21 AM
 
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We 3 have been friends for a few years. Than the "bad guy" got a girlfriend. Let say we were his first two friends he ever had. As soon as he got a gf, he got rude to me. He also did the same thing to the 3rd guy but all behind his back. I didn't want to fight so I just ended the friendship. So now he has 1 friend and 1 girlfriend. It's like he don't need anymore.

I know he will get mean to him as soon he'll get another friend. Let say that that friend and me are not so close. We see about 3-times a year, spoke few words and that's it.
Should I tell him about what he said to me and about him?

And for the bottom line.....He's words was really mean. For example: he got a plan where he'll meet that guy and beat the heal out of him. He make fun of him in the worst kind of way. Because he's a ***** that always happened over the phone or msn.

We were hanging out from when we were 20 to around 25. He also make fun of me when my mom died. I'll never forget that!


I was thinking about sending him (the good guy) an SMS saying "Watch that guy he's not the guy you think" and maybe write down 2 or 3 things he said. Basically I don't care for each one of them anymore cause we're not close.

What should I do?
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Old 05-09-2015, 05:41 AM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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Leave it alone. You'll end up looking like the trouble maker if you start saying stuff.

How old are you anyway?
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Old 05-09-2015, 05:42 AM
 
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Why do you want to cause drama?
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Old 05-09-2015, 05:48 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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This should probably be moved to "non-romantic relationships"
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Old 05-09-2015, 05:50 AM
 
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Causing drama? I just want to tell the truth. Is that so bad?

We're in late 20es, but I can't stand that loser got away with attitude like that.

I don't know....
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Old 05-09-2015, 06:23 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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If he's treating your other friend badly then he'll figure it out on his own. Go your own way instead of seeking revenge - you dissolved the friendship years ago but you're still stuck back there!
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Old 05-09-2015, 06:36 AM
 
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This should probably be moved to "non-romantic relationships"
Depending on how good a friends they were.
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Old 05-09-2015, 06:44 AM
 
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I always shoot the messenger or at least question his/her motives. How do you benefit from this? How does your friend?
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Old 05-09-2015, 07:39 AM
 
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Yeah it was non-romantic.

He did it wrong and got away with that. If I do what I'm planning to:
- I get a little bit of satisfaction.
- The bad guy got punched in the face (maybe even literally)
- The "friend" finally find out the truth, which he might would in next years or may not (if the bad guy wouldn't get another friend)
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Old 05-09-2015, 07:52 AM
 
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Sounds like a great plan.
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